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I'll ask J for you since he's the one experiencing it, nnot me :)

I do overnights with nudge, I know J feels down sometimes but he keeps himself busy, has a friend over, etc. I think you just have to find ways to occupy your mind and get used to the newness until its not new anymore

good point in reccomending kinds, i like lifestyles ultra sensative, latex if you arent allergic to it.

Bingo. One thing I dislike in poly is when people have rules over someone else having multiple partners when you yourself do. I'm not immune to it. Check out my thread "Dating and commitment among secondaries." http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=54405 I had some moments of doubt...

what kind of advice are you looking for?

Hm. hadnt noticed that

well, it sounds like you are going to have to go the condom route until the IUD is in place if the many worry is pregnancy, sounds like you have no STD's worries with this set up. SO..some condom advice. Like you, I cant use hormone BC, so i have to use condoms with both guys. main...

Im going to try to give you a little perspective on just this bit....Nudge and I work together, and yes it IS nice we get to have lunch when we want/can and get some chats during the day...but honestly? its almost more of a tease than anything else. "Seeing" him is always nice, i love his...

This. And i shall never post without reading again. lol

Thats what i get for not reading all the thread!! I agree with you, new born twins oy. I have a hard enough time schedule around our kids and the yare between 2-7, i dont htink i'd leave the hubs much or at all with a couple newborns

I didnt read all the replies, but im going to just give you my experience. I love being with Nudge, i'd spend more night/overnights/weekends with him if i could, but i also really like to be with J AND our kids. I see nudge 2 to 3 times a week and I dont think anymore than that is fair to my...

Ohhh stop ::fanning myself::: :p

thank you! I'll post this weeks too :)

Hi :) saw your post about returning, nice to see someone else from new england :)

and hopefully you got more bjs....

Same with mine so far, but they are younger 7,5,2. they adore their dad, and when Nudge is around they think of him as a great friend. I dont think it matters much otherwise.

We aren't at a place where we'd be having sex in the same house, but I do wonder sometimes if we'll get there. It would make things easier.

This! I like my guys to at least tidy up. I'm actually a fan of it being all gone, but I wouldn't do it either, so I'm not going to ask them to.

this statement is hysterical and makes me wish i wasnt at work so i could watch the video

Quoting my BF here, cause Im that coworker and I have another coworkers question. its not entirely along the lines of this original post, but it seemed like a good place to put it. So above Nudge is talking about us...things have settled down at the office and people are being OK...but Im about...