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I appreciate the input and the quote. Thanks, Snow

Well said! Thank you for your input! Snow

If your boyfriend is young, say under 30 or 35, he may need a lot of casual sex. Some men do. I did. I slept with maybe 50 or more women by the time I was 25, but maybe 5 or 6 after (I'm 55 now). Be understanding, if you can. Testosterone is some powerful stuff! Your time will come when you hit...

Casual Sex, Open Relationships and Polyamory I tend to think of open relationships as "intimate dating." You have commitment to one or more of the people you are dating and/or sleeping with, but it isn't an agreed-upon permanent lifelong commitment. Still, you expect the relationship to...

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Very well put! I wish I had said that in my first post! Take Care! Snow

I like a close personal relationship with love, romance and plenty of good sex! I'm not into one-nighters, gang bangs or any other type of impersonal, casual sex anymore. My hormonal days have passed. I like to be with someone for awhile and get to know them. It takes time to get close and...

Hi there! You visited my profile page so I'm visiting yours. Feel free to say hello sometime! I'd like to hear about your experience here and what you're looking for. Take Care! Snow

Thanks for the guidance, Mod. I have to admit I may have overreacted to the comment. I'm just starting to figure out some things about myself, and was expecting to find similar people here with welcoming comments. Unfortunately, the comment posted seemed a little judgmental to me. Imagine the...

P.S.S. I didn't say I was here looking for casual sex. How did you leap to that conclusion? :confused:

P.S. This website has this definition for polyamory: Polyamory n 1: the state or practice of having more than one open romantic relationship at a time (2008). In Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary. 2: romantically loving more than one person at a time 3: responsible non-monogamy based on honest...

Different people have different ideas about what polyamory is. Simply put, it is loving more than one partner. Non-monogamy is another term used. It doesn't mean someone has to be in a 3-way marriage to qualify. If a person wants to have a steady relationship and see others on the side, that is...

Washington, DC. Thanks for asking.

Don't wait for the guy to make the first move. Just go to him sometime and say something like "I'd like to get to know you better. Could we have lunch sometime?" A couple of things could happen: 1. He could say no which will suck, but you'll get over it. 2. He might say yes! If he says yes...

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I was in that ballpark too when I was that age. Now, at 55, once a day is about my max. Even that pace gets tiring over the course of a few days, but I'm still willing, and do my best to not leave my girlfriend hanging. I remember all those times in my 20s when I couldn't get laid, so I try to...

Very interesting! There are a few ideas that come to mind: 1. When I was 18 and 20 (hell, even 30) and full of testosterone, I only knew of one woman who couldn't get enough (thank God for her!). I found it tough to even find women that would. I expect many younger men don't have the money to...

My take This sounds like some pretty good advice to me! Also, remember to be honest to yourself. Sounds to me like you're having sexual feelings for a couple of people and you would like to express them. Nothing wrong with that. I don't think it would hurt at all to say to your primary...

My take You need to decide what it is you're looking for. You may need a primary girlfriend that is understanding of your need for recreational sex. There are women out there are going through the same thing you are. You might find a relationship with the right primary person will really...

My take Why don't you all just sit down together some night and discuss everything? Get everything out in the open so you can deal with it.