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    I am so excited!!

    you were probably triggered because i said "get your head out of your ass". When I say that, it's like saying "Yo dude what's up?" Friendly. Like, I don't want to see you with your head up your ass. If you say it to yourself enough times, you'll become desensitized. :cool: There are plenty...
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    I am so excited!!

    My message to you was coming from a place of love, not from a place of hate. It is no secret that I am a pessimist, and I live my life according to what works for me. You are free to believe that I mean harm when I say what I say, but I will point out that you are receiving my message through...
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    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    Subscribed! Here, I'll pimp my butter-making series. (Yes, I know I pronounced "artisanal" wrong. This was unscripted, and I was not going to re-do the whole scene just because of one word.)
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    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    LOL me too. vanilla is my fvorite ice cream flavor. A lot of people think of it as "plain" ice cream, and true, it is my favorite because you can combine it with any type of pie or syrup and it doesn't overpower or clash... but i also like it as just a flavor on its own.
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    I am so excited!!

    Also, when you meet people in this manner - advertising for a relationship - you don't know if you're going to get some nut or some swindler; they could be telling you just what they think you want to hear in order to get into your life and make it hell. I'll rain on your parade any day of the...
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    considering poly but with a mono partner !!

    it is probably not a good idea to joke about something if the other person doesn't think it's funny.
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    considering poly but with a mono partner !!

    My husband and I used to joke about me having "boyfriends" but it really was a joke up until a couple of years ago. Now that I have a boyfriend, we still joke about it.
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    Just Beginning

    Meh. It seems this "we must haz triad or nothing at all" is like a phase that many married couples go through when they are opening their marriages. Eventually, they figure it out and realize that a triad in reality is not all it's made out to be in their minds.
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    New, want it to work, but struggling at times

    You could always go with the "three strikes & you're out" approach.
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    considering poly but with a mono partner !!

    Sounds like you may love each other but are not compatible in a long-term committed relationship due to the fact that you both want different things. Happens all the time. You can either drive yourselves crazy by trying to "make it work", or you can be honest with yourselves about what you...
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    Conflicts, Jealousy, & Time Management

    What are the "negative emotions" you speak of. The general consensus seems to be that emotions are not good or bad, and it's not healthy to just "get rid of" them but to examine them closely and figure out what they mean from the inside. This leads to something called self-awareness, which leads...
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    Hey again,

    Would you post a thread in General Discussions with that in the title please?
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    life long commitment

    Breathing, breathing.
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    life long commitment

    Bawwwawww.... Not you too.... It must be infectious. >collapses into a quivering pulp in the corner< Halfway down the first post, under "Relationship Issues" (and elsewhere)
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Kittehs.
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    12-Hour Edit-Window, Abbreviations, and Stickies, Oh My!

    It's ok. Someone thought i was a guy the other day. It's not uncommon.
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    12-Hour Edit-Window, Abbreviations, and Stickies, Oh My!

    PS - Imaginary Illusion is a man, FYI.
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    12-Hour Edit-Window, Abbreviations, and Stickies, Oh My!

    Hey, Ima. See post #20 in this thread (above). Read it. Then put yourself on ice. The End.
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    My husband's attempts at poly always seem to adversely affect our own relationship

    Onl y you know yourself well enough to know if this is a true "bad gut feeling" or if you are just experiencing "gun-shyness".
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