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Welcome Ginger.

Welcome to the forum.

Nice to meet you! We've heard so much about you.

Welcome!!!

Rarechild, Yes, he spoke his mind. He was honest in his feelings. Communication and honesty has been established. She now knows how he feels and he isn't "protecting" her anymore. Okay. Good. So everything is out there in the open. Now drop it. Let her come around when and if she's ready...

That's great. Sometimes you need that closure.

I don't deal with it. I tell people on a "need to know" basis, or if I feel they will handle it well. Most of my friends know, with the exception of people whose friendship is based more on their child's relationship with my son. I don't feel a need to tell them, since the friendship on our part...

Moose-- WAIT! Your wife just had a baby. Your first baby. Now is not the time. She is going to need you to support her physically and emotionally for a while, until the dust settles. I've already had a poly V relationship. I am currently in my eighth month of pregnancy. I miss having a female...

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Welcome.

I didn't say you ARE a statistic OR a stupid teenager. I said don't BECOME one. I'm sure you and your gf are well established and have been tested and have discussed consequences. I'm talking about bringing this new person in. How do you KNOW she's clean or won't lie or is ready for consequences...

I wasn't even going to say anything about the first post. But the no-protection thing, coupled with the first post? No no no. As far as being invincible-- I've always been a big fan of condoms. I've gone without, but not until in a well-established mono relationship and on birth control...

Oh no. Big alarm bells going off for me here. It's one thing not using protection in a long-term, mono relationship, where you know the other is only sexual with you, you've both been tested, and she's maybe on birth control to prevent pregnancy and you're both ready to deal with consequences...

HAHAHA. That's great! Good luck. Let us know how the real meeting goes! And don't vanish on us again. You're way too much fun.

Sometimes I look back and feel like I was almost ambushed into my V. After all, my husband and (ex)gf knew eachother for years and knew how the others mind worked. I've already gotten into the story of how N and I came close to divorce and how both my bisexuality and our poly natures came into...

Just be yourself. If she wants to meet you she's already accepted poly and, at the very least, the idea of you. The best thing you can do is be who you are from the start, so no one feels surprised or upset if things come out later. Be clear on what you hope to get from this relationship. Be...

Hello. Glad you found us.

Keith hun, welcome. I assume you're new? Just want to let you know the moderators will probably ask you to get the links out of your signature. Links unrelated to poly or personal non-consumer sites aren't allowed here. You seem not to be a spammer, so just a friendly warning. :)

As a teen I used to go to a sleep away camp in upstate NY for the better part of the summers. It was smack in the middle of the woods with a mile long gravel road being the only way to drive in. There was nothing for miles around but trees. The owner used to cook with wild fruits and mushrooms...

This doesn't really have anything to do with the thread. But my son told me yesterday he was going to marry two girls when he grew up because he always loves so many people all at the same time.