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And sometimes people who do stupid things are called "retarded". It doesn't mean they ARE retarded. But I'm sure true MR people don't appreciate stupidity being linked with retardation. Stupidity can be helped, retardation cannot. Indecisiveness and bitchiness can be helped, bipolar cannot...

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Every once in a while, I thank the good spirits that I am the black sheep of the family and no one cares whom I spend my time with. Sure, they love me, but I established from a very young age that I was not theirs, but my own person. So they're glad to have me about, and just as glad to leave me be.

I don't really have alot of advice on how to get over the feelings. I had them too. Then they were gone over time the more secure I felt that my husband was ok and happy about my new relationship and I saw how much a friendsip with my gf was bringing into his life. Then they occasionally...

Not to attack on your first post, but you're standing on a landmine my friend. As far as I'm concerned. Was this woman ACTUALLY bipolar or are you just labeling her as such? Because...I'm about as bipolar as you can get and I am quite capable of monitoring myself and maintaining healthy...

Really? Because I am 30 (not THAT far from "modern" dating) and I always found that it was MONOGAMY which was expected. I'd go on two dates with a guy and he'd introduce me as his girlfriend. This always confused me and is what led to being a serial monogamist. I thought this was what was...

I'll be honest with you, as a married woman, if we opened up to a level where my gf (I am bisexual and was the one at the center of the V) were to be sexually involved with my husband, I'd want to call the shots, too. BUT, I wouldn't want to do it in a way that made her feel "less than." There...

:D My ex isn't the worst person to be compared to. Not even nearly.

I'm sorry if I upset you. Please don't feel you need to go into any kind of "hiding" over it. After all, I did say you reminded me of an amazing woman I happen to know personally. I'm just in a very odd mindset. As I say to friends who will listen, sometimes I have bipolar...sometimes it has me. :(

Starting as a triad might actually be easiest. You all have a say in the way the relationship develops from the very beginning. It seems like a more equal way to work it than "a third joining a couple." Welcome aboard.

Hey Reality. I tried reading that thread but ugh. I did manage to get the gist of what some of Extended way talking about. So her and her sister share their respective husbands and all raise their kids together. Well...I'm grossed out by the idea of siblings sharing, but it's been known to...

Yeah...notice how I haven't posted an avatar, my FB account, my name, or my email..... One couple here has my IM. And they live faaaaarrrr away and have no idea who I really am. I get what you mean. (BTW-"uncomfortability"? Can I borrow that word? lol)

Psstt...Mono...I was teasing. ;) I'm in a weird mood today. Caught between a low and a high. So playful, but ripe with sarcasm. YGirl-I hope I didn't offend. You really do sound alot like my ex. And dammit if I don't still pine over her most days. She's an amazing woman.

I prefer breaking out the salt and tequilla. Mono, I hope you don't think of what I'm doing as serious flirting or intimidating. Seriously-not interested in men outside my hubby. You're entirely safe. Promise.

My dear, HOW are you poly? You sound like my ex gf to some extent. And I often wondered the same about her for all I loved her and still do. Wait....you're not her in disguise are you? *looking around paranoid* :eek: MUAH!

I've been working towards becoming a psychologist myself. Have my degree in Developmental and hope to get my @$$ back in school after this baby to complete a masters. My husband gets annoyed when I "psychoanalyze" him. But he has come to my therapist with me and found it very helpful to us as a...

Check your messages. Hahaha. Don't hurt my feelings now....;)

Welcome lvfcs, It doesn't seem fair that you and he don't get any quality time alone, when you say you've all put the one act of betrayal behind you. Are you in a triad (the three of you have a relationship together) or a V (he has a separate relationship with each of you)? Do you spend time...

Hmm... I think a great many of our rules are made to protect our children. When we started dating, we were both in other relationships and there really weren't any rules other than complete honesty. Now we have to have them when considering any others, at least until the new relationship is...

You described what I was trying to get at so much better than I was able to. Thanks..