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Hey Lovefromgirl. I'm just curious. You say that you hope that Ciel's wife doesn't feel as if you are trying to take him away from her. But if she was, for the sake of conversation on here, what could she ask you and how would you answer that would make her feel more secure and trusting of...

I agree that you know it's Love when you have seen the best and the worst of each other and not only do you still want to be around that other person, but it actually makes you love them more. NRE dissipates in a hurry when the going gets tough and there's no real love to fall back on. My...

Have you left yet?!? I have a bottle of tequila (and sunscreen) with our names on it! Hurry!!! :)

I'm sorry that you are so frustrated. Sometimes the best thing to do is just let things go until calmer, clearer heads prevail. Quite often, the best response is no response. I have been battling this with my bf for 2 years. :D I've come to accept that it's not personal, he's still...

Haha! I never actually thought that. Until I saw that you are in Colorado, I saw you name and wondered if you were from Alberta, Canada. So yes, km34 is right, edit your signature to clarify that, just in case. Welcome!

LR, that`s cute. :) That`s not labelling though, that`s more of a pet name designation. We have that too, anything from Sweetheart, Baby, Love, Honey... etc etc to our personal names for each other Spot and Dot. :D Those are endearing, as are yours. Love it!!! :D

Isn't that the truth?! My bf and I were just talking about that recently. It can indeed sound dorky, dumb, and in some instances derogatory and hurtful. In my instance as "Secondary", he agrees that it devalues and undercuts how much I really mean to him. Just because I don't share his full...

Hey there SaBo. First off, take a deep breath. You sound like you are reeling, spinning yourself into a tizzy with these emotions. To start, has something specific happened recently to urge you to react this way and reach out? You are NOT an asshole or a hypocrite but I understand that you...

She's not trolling. Read her past threads. She's once bitten, twice shy. And I don't blame her. To be honest, there is alot of the negative on here. But why wouldn't there be? This is a forum for people not only to share the great stories, but to seek assistance, guidance, support and...

It's a respect and acceptance issue. It's probably not a case of "if i have nothing better to do, then i'll do you." or at least i hope not. It may very well be that his wife goes ahead and makes plans on behalf of both of them without advising him as such. So he checks to ensure that...

WH. I also agree with everyone else. I think it's wrong and rude, too. If he doesn't already have plans with his wife for that night, why not go ahead and make plans with you? He shouldn't need to clear his schedule with her first. If she had something planned for them, he should already...

Very well said. :D

DH - I just have one, from when it was still fresh... Posted because you asked so nicely. ;)

OOOH Back to the coconuts! Happy Post-Hump Day! Now I'm singing.. AGAIN. :eek: And craving a Pina Colada. ;) :D:D:D

Thank you for saying that. It is very cruel. As (for the purpose of this site) "Secondary", I know where I stand and fit in in the relationship. I don't need to be labelled. My bf and I had this discussion recently. His thoughts were similar to mine when I said that I thought that the...

Love it! :D Happy Hump Day!

HA! That would be a hot thread. I would say that those of us 40+ have probably never had better sex than what we are having now. :D The confidence and assurance in oneself that this matured age brings really pays off!!! AND it's wonderful exercise. :D :D :D

It's a quiet, contemplative morning for me. I'm wishing that I could have a cup of my guy's delicious coffee. Reflecting on our weekend of celebrating milestones, I am in awe of the patience, understanding, strength, support, passion and love that he offers me. Truly unconditional and...

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Very interesting way of putting that! Now I understand why my bf feels the jealousy he does over me, his mono "secondary," yet he has trouble understanding when I feel that way sometimes.