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My view on the subject is that so long as you are aware that there are others and aware how serious the others are in the relationship you don't need to share details if you don't want to/someone isn't comfortable doing so. It can easily cause strife if you try to give her information she...

You don't have to stop being friends with him. Stop kissing him and being romantically involved. He's not yours and you're letting him take advantage of you and someone else. Make him choose you or her and put an end to this.

I thought this was going to be about the TV show based on the title. If you're saying it conversationally I don't think it is that big of a deal. I tell a lot of people stuff like "I don't love you" or "if you do this I'll love you forever" or stupidness like that. If you were actually...

Harsh but necessary. Have him tell her and stop seeing him until he does. How do you know he didn't cheat on you? People don't just become cheaters overnight.

I feel like I just read a story about my life. That was uncanny.

There's a reason it's called a private life. Tell your partners not to worry about it at their job. If they are friends with someone there and absolutely must tell them (such in my case cuz I'm a blabber mouth) just make sure you aren't telling anyone that's going to get you in trouble.

Thanks for the link. That looks pretty helpful. My wife is definitely a lot like that. She handles a lot under the surface and it destroys me that she won't let me in. I need to learn that's just her way of dealing with it, though, and it's not personal. Her childhood was similar in nature to...

I hear you. I am the exact same way. Make a mistake and do all the wrong things to fix it and make it worse. Don't get caught up on the sex. I did and it ended poorly.

You're exactly right and I should have seen that. I'm just so mad at myself for ending the night like that. What the fuck is wrong with me, you know? I mean part of the reason she went on vacation is so we can have time to get away from the arguments and settle down and the first day she's back...

This is our problem. She is much less emotionally driven than I am and that leads to my frustration when she isn't bouncing off the walls over me. I know she wasn't thinking "this guy is so much better than my husband" because I know my wife, but after having an emotionally charged day preceded...

She said yes! Yesterday I went and bought a ring, got my hair cut, got my eyebrows trimmed (they were unruly, it was painful, let's move on), and shaved (rare for me). Today I went to the build-a-bear workshop, recorded "(full name), will you marry me...again?" and then drove to pick her up...

I am a strictly straight male. I have had a MMF threesome where we were near each other but only touched the girl. I was not weirded out by his penis. There is a difference between homophobia and straight. If there is an option have him suggest he change his profile to "mostly straight" if he...

It sounds like you already know what to do.

I'm quite sure I'll be returning to this thread often to remember how I felt. I hate it when I have a panic attack. I still feel anxious but your comment helped so thank you! Stupid anxiety.

It's 10:35 PM. I'm stressing out. I've been cleaning the house in an attempt to (distract myself) make it presentable for my wife, although the only room that's messy is the one I'm currently in. I've barely been in this house this week so there wasn't really anything to clean. I've done a few...

This reminds me of a comment one of my friends made at lunch today when I was telling him about this week and poly in general. I'm not going to repeat it here, but I about smacked him from across the table. The only reason I didn't is because I knew he was joking and didn't really feel that way...

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When I was reading your prior posts it sounded like you were having a lot of difficulty managing the situation and seeing that it wasn't cataclysmic. After I posted you replied to redpepper and I realized that wasn't the case but by that point it was too late to undo. I've been waiting for the...

There are several different ways to accomplish what you want. If you're looking to embed your pictures like so, then it's different from adding an attachment. If you want to upload directly from your PC, go to User CP (top left) and click on "Pictures & Albums" under the "Networking" section...