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    Deep in his heart am I loved less?

    I have been a polyamorous "marriage" for lack of a better term with a man and his wife for nearly five years. He has been legally married to her for 13 years and has children with her. We get along like a big loving family and in general things get along swimmingly. While she is the alpha female...
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    Well, I am out of options...

    As the second wife in a triad going on five years, it is my opinion that if you are going to maintain that your relationship is more special and important simply because you and your husband share a piece of paper and four extra years together, then you are greatly misjudging and underestimating...
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    I don't like my metamour :(

    metamour Having lived in a poly family for almost five years now (I am the other wife, you might say) I can only say from experience that in my opinion if you are ever going to truly feel compersion and happiness as another partner, you have to get along and have some kind of love and...
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    What has inspired u to look for another wife?

    What has inspired u to look for another wife?
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    I feel like that a lot sometimes. When things are good I am loved. When I need something I am...

    I feel like that a lot sometimes. When things are good I am loved. When I need something I am ignored or told I am too needy. Makes me sad and confused.
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    Need advice on how to deal with jealousy and envy

    i know the feeling I can completely understand where you are coming from. I too am in a triad relationship with a married couple. I have lived with them for four years and we share a home, finances, and childrearing. We love each other dearly. I feel very jealous at times of their...
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    Struggling as "second girl"

    Yes, I was told I would be a primary, an equal wife. When I explain how I feel I am told that I am too needy and that I am just jealous and crazy. I am constantly reminded of how much she does and how I should be more like her. She and I are friends, but opposites. I would say he and I have more...
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    Struggling as "second girl"

    I am new here, so forgive me if my post is inadequate. I will try to keep this concise, but I do ramble. I am a 30-year old female and have been in a polyamorous relationship with a married couple for four years. They have been married for 13 years. The wife and I are best friends and I love...
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