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You know, it's hard to post in this blog when I feel like my marriage is falling apart. Is it supposed to be this hard? The stupid thing is it has nothing to do wih poly. Hell, poly has probably kept us together, since the last time we had sex was on our honeymoon. In February. *cry*

See, I think you just weren't creative enough with the dice.

OMG. You HAVE to make a character sheet for Bee! I'm thinking, Stormageddon: Dark Lord of All. (I hope they're Doctor Who fans! :p )

Hrm. That sounds suspiciously like what Indigo and I are navigating right now. Thank you for sharing.

Learn something new every day! :D

If he's really wracked with guilt, he might be relieved.

Must be a good orgy, since it would be their last! :p

I remember trying to explain one healing encounter to a friend. They jokingly replied, "So you pity-fucked him?" I was utterly shocked that anyone could see it that way. It was at that point I realized how differently I felt about sex than most people. My body is not a temple, it's a gift.

You'd kinda have to stop the threesomes, first. :p ;)

Wow. I dated one of these types in university. I completely understand what you mean. And he expected me to be the same as him ... Granted the sex was great, probably why it took me so long to see the light.

Ah, thank you. I thought you might have been dancing around it, but didn't want to put (such drastic) words in your mouth. Also, I missed the part about emotional closeness, so yeah, the kids are more than likely suffering.

I'm going to preface this post by saying that I am not going to respond to any comments about why my opinion is wrong or awful. I have done a lot of soul-searching; this was my opinion before coming to this forum, and after reading many legitimate, logical arguments against cheating here and...

Ah yes. That's the one that smells really bad. I knew that, I was just drawing a blank at the acronym. Thanks! :p

What's BV? Maybe just being dense right now. (Long day at work!) At any rate, so glad it wasn't more serious!! Ever think you'd be glad your gf had a yeast infection???? :D

Yes, it does take time, but is well worth the patience. :) More time as a group will help this process along, and keep checking in!

I am more wanting to see if others have experienced similar feelings about sex and friends. Now I'm feeling a little less like an anomaly! You've got the sexual healing part down for me. I definitely identify with that. And the other part, the one that I was less sure about where it was coming...

I think others have pretty much figured out what I was trying to get at, so thank you. I also don't feel so alone, now! :p

I couldn't agree more! Also, this quote kind of hits what I mean. (I'm not sure on the etiquette for quoting other threads, especially if it's come from a blog, hence why I'm making them anonymous.)

Prolapse was my first thought as well. *hug* It's not your fault, even if it was caused by fisting. That's why it's an accident! *more hugs!*

This (unless I'm misreading someone else.). Once I get emotionally close with someone, it's like, "Why not?" At that point, I know they respect me, and have my best interests at heart (and I theirs). All the things that would normally stop me from sleeping with someone (unsure of intentions...