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    Physical intimacy with friends

    Sorry Indie, the partnership part was referring to sexual partnership. I will try to respond to individual pieces of things when I'm back home. (Happy Thanksgiving in Canada!) Also, this is not entirely clear in my head (hence my request for feedback), so if I contradict myself, it's just me...
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    Physical intimacy with friends

    I will reply more later, but it's hard to quote and review and edit on an iPad. First, if I did misunderstand you, RP, it's still given me food for thought, so not a bad thing at all! But I don't think I did. I am not talking about friends with benefits. Yes, I have had those, still sort of have...
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    Physical intimacy with friends

    Yes. I've made that mistake before. He would say no one minute, then flirt the next. It was very confusing, and more hurtful than if he'd just said no and left it at that. Yes and no. I am not too uncomfortable to discuss how I feel about it. Which means they will hear and have the opportunity...
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    Physical intimacy with friends

    Below is a statement from another thread, and my response. I would really appreciate feedback. :eek: To clarify, I don't mean making relationships with these people in the typical sense, like bf/gf. Just friends, with whom you also have sex, because it seems a natural complement to your...
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    Redpepper's journey

    This really struck true for me. I was talking about this with someone I am developing a close friendship with. I think it's the reason I don't have a lot of female friends, too. I inevitably end up falling for them in some way or another, and that's not cool for them. With men, the chances are...
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    Also a good chance of damaging the tattoo if you scratch and pick. So hang in there and be strong!!
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    My coworker sent me a job ad today, as she knew Mr. A was looking for work a while back. (He's since found a very good job.) It was just very thoughtful!
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    How to avoid having a long post deleted when you hit "Submit"

    Don't forget to log out after you do this, especially if you're on a shared or public computer. Otherwise, anyone who goes to polyamory.com will be logged in as you, if you forget to sign out.
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    Okay, sorry for the delay. Here's my experience with guys that have difficulty cumming during sex. One cause can be their masturbation technique. Some guys maintain a death grip on their cocks while getting off. Now, unless you've been lifting weights with your vag, I doubt you can match this...
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    I've dated a few men who have had difficulty achieving orgasm during sex. One, even, who had never had an orgasm during intercourse until me (unless you count getting close by hand and throwing it in at the last minute). I'd be happy to go into more detail about what's going on sometimes and...
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    My Ice Cream Analogy

    It's cheaper than a relationship! :p
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    Turnabout

    Has he gone off the deep end??? :confused:
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    Ditto! :)
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    Wasting My Time..

    You have a lot of anger/frustration/hurt going on here. It might be worth considering that potential matches are picking up on this and it's spooking them off. Coming across as angry and/or desperate will only hurt your cause. Perhaps you might try having a trusted friend/partner/metamour proof...
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    It's not like that at all! Trust me, hips are magical things. ;)
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Mr. A took me up for a flight today. Showed me some neat moves. It was a beautiful day for it! Had a loverly family dinner with Indigo's parents, brother, and grandmother. His twin is usually an ass, but was totally bearable toniight and I actually enjoyed talking to him at times.
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    My Ice Cream Analogy

    There we go. My only critique of this one is that she forgot the bathroom.
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    My Ice Cream Analogy

    There's an even better one around ... Really good. Let me go find it!
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    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    Ah, II. You have been in my thoughts, and I'm glad it's been resolved to a point where you can do some healing. And now it's time to get out the beer, lube and kiddie pool. ;)
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    is there a better word?

    Gotcha! :)
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