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I didn't offer any advice, but here's my take. Seamus seems to be okay with your poly when it's theoretical, but when real life possibilities come up, he panics, immediately tells you how awful he feels instead of trying to work through anything on his own, lays a bit of a guilt trip on you...

Thanks. :) And I have been following your happenings, I just have nothing useful to contribute, other than general well-wishing and hoping things smooth out for you. :o

Thank you for the input! I have used the Diva Cup before. Gave it a good go for about half a dozen cycles. I found it to be unreliable overnight and during strenuous physical activity. And I'm not squeamish about getting "up in there" or anything (I have had to re-position my IUD strings when...

Ah thank you, BU. I am overdue for a physical, so I will be talking about everything with a doctor shortly. Actually, I was thinking about you, because well, I had a herpes outbreak last week. Haha. Flattering, no? It just always seems to happen when I talk about it, like on your blog. Very...

A whole lot of little things Things are still plodding along. Nothing major to report, really, just a bunch of minor stuff. Indigo and I had some issues last week, spent a lot of the week arguing and bickering and hurting each other's feelings, though it had nothing to do with poly. And we...

It's call Saran wrap in North America, but cling wrap is the generic term. (Like Kleenex vs tissue, Q-tip vs cotton swab.) I don't understand how the femdom would be effective? Unless there are different types of female condoms? The one I'm thinking of looks like an oversized male condom, with...

Yes. Tired. I think the first post of my blog talks about how damn tired I was. It does get better. How long have you been together? Also, PM me with where in Ontario you are, if you feel comfy. :)

Or compared to single? :)

I didn't read it as a comparison, just a question about men's experiences. *shrug*

I'll answer on behalf of the guys. Yes. :p It's one of the most common frustrations I see here, and certainly saw it with Indigo when he was looking.

Don't worry, hun, I get it. I think you're exercising wonderful self control and really are being as compassionate as possible. *HUG*

I would tell him that it seems he has bad taste in women.

Thanks, II. I will work on that.

The shoulder to cry on One thing I'm finding a little difficult is that I am the primary source of comfort for Indigo and Mr. A. Indigo's dad has been in and out of the hospital for the last couple of weeks with a terrible infection. Indigo is understandably scared; his dad doesn't take great...

You're only greedy if your wife doesn't know.

Q: What's worse than rejecting someone because you're not interested? A: Dating them so you don't hurt their feelings.

But only after she gets some tips from the personal trainer.

Oh. That sucks.

I thought the celeb thing kinda cheapened it. :(

It doesn't protect against all strains of HPV, just the ones most likely to cause cervical cancer.