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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Dad met Mr. A today. Well, technically they met at the wedding, but they were never introduced. Today they were introduced and the four of us chatted for about 45 minutes before Mr. A drove us to the airport. I can tell Dad likes him, he's just weirded out by the whole situation. It was nice to...
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    Redpepper's journey

    Ah, you guys are fun. :)
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    Redpepper's journey

    Wrap it in a cover, call it "The Natural Monogamist" and leave it where Mono can find it. Shhh! He'll never know! ETA: No wait! "Motorcycles and Me"
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Thanks, RP. Don't feel like an object, yet. I think it will get better as I get used to the nice new bed, and then on Monday, Mr. A's bed is coming. There will be less of a difference. It is going well. Thank you. I can tell you I think of you often, right now! ("What would RP do?") In non...
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    *warm fuzzies* I am happy. Everyone is happy. Indigo is off for the summer (school board employee). He's been doing lots of little and not-so-little things around the house that have just been sort of collecting. It's such a relief to know he's taking care of things here while I'm at work. If...
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    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    I have personally never seen anyone on this forum move in with someone (even friends) and start a poly relationship with them at the same time and come back to tell us of their success. Generally, they come back asking for advice and support with what's happened since the move (very bad...
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    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    Why the rush to move in together? Why not date for a bit first? Or, a while. A long while. Adjusting to a roommate is hard enough. Adjusting to a new relationship is also tough. Why combine the two? Seems like a recipe for disaster, especially since you've not had the benefit of previous poly...
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    Last night, as I left the room to go have sexy time with Mr. A, Indigo mumbled, "Giggidy!" not quite under his breath.
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    Pregnant girlfriend. WTF now?

    Couple of things here, not getting on your case, just explaining in case anyone is wondering. I think retard and retarded probably have such negative connotations associated with them, that it's not polite to use them, even in conjunction with the "proper" words. For example, people hear...
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    Me again...

    If it's metric, it's a fucktonne. ;)
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    Poly on purpose

    I'm not sure I understand. Are you upset, too? And why is it not also Tilly's responsibility to communicate these things with you? How did all of this fall on Mike? It seems like a bump, but not a big one. Not worth throwing everything away over, unless there's more to it than this. :confused:
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    New, want it to work, but struggling at times

    If you go back in your browser, it will generally be there. Also, if you're on a private computer/device, you can opt to have the site keep you permanently logged in by checking the "Remember Me" box at login. I believe the idle timeout is around 30 minutes, and when you're composing a message...
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    Helping primary feel "primary"

    I thought OP was in a relationship with the husband, for ten years. Now I am thoroughly confused by who is dating whom for how long and what gender they are!
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    Peace and joy and love

    Sending hugs your way, purdy lady. :)
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Haha! I never used to be one of "those", either. I got a cell just over a year ago. First one ever. :p
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    Polyamorous vs Promiscuous - A Question of Motive

    Oh this ... I remember attending a LAN party with a couple of hundred people. There were less than ten women there. It was overwhelming.
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Indigo and I got the spare room tidied up. It previously had some of our stuff in it, with a blow up mattress and Mr. A's things crammed into where ever they'd fit. I cleared out the closet, hung up his clothes, Indigo put up a curtain rod and proper curtain (has blinds, but Mr. A can't sleep...
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