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I'm confused. In one post, did you say he said you could pursue other men? Then you say he wants a divorce if you do? He should be able, as an adult, to tell you if he consents to you having other partners, whether or not he knows their identities and other details. It sounds like you are...

I initially came to this board as poly and then recently declared myself monogamous. That decision was well received here but I have felt what you speak of in groups irl. I'd been involved in the kink community and very few people were mono and it was/is often looked down upon. I'd felt a lot of...

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I am rather biased in the area of discretion. From the point of view of the secondary, if the couple is demanding secrecy it can become unhealthy and even harmful for you. I was in a relationship that demanded I keep it secret from my friends, our mutual friends, their family etc. Some secrecy...

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Hi Rootlet, I'm sorry that you're dealing with a difficult situation. I don't have any experience with asexual marriages but from your post you do sound conflicted. I think it is possible to do what you're suggesting but I also don't think it's the only path. It might end up being that you and...

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I'm sorry that you're going through a really difficult time. :( My breakup last winter destroyed me but it also allowed me to rebuild. I hope that while you're grieving you can find new things in life to feel passionate about. You are the only one who can ever always be there for you. Don't...

You know, Indie, I recently decided to try and find me a nice, nilla boy. :) I figured I can educate him about what I like, just like any one should do when they find a new sex partner. I had been hoping that Beanstalk would work out but that experienced helped me realize that I actually felt...

A DM is a dungeon monitor. They are security/assistants/firstaid etc at play parties. Mostly, they just observe and make sure everything happening is ok. They have the authority to stop a scene if they feel it's unsafe and they're available to help out if need be. I'm actually a DM or was, since...

Well, I was raised in a conservative evangelical home. I was involved in a few cult-like para-church organizations. Then, in 2009, I was in a cult, essentially. All of this really affected my views on sexuality. I also went to a very sex positive college for a year and half. So that had a big...

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Sounds like it could be a prolapse? Which often happens without outside help such as fisting, so I wouldn't leap to blaming yourself. Could just be a natural body thing. In any event, I hope the doc's appointment goes well. Waiting is never fun. :(