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OK OK OK... I figure everyone knows by now that I like sex. Im good at sex and I like to bring my partners ( and Ill admitt, myself) lots of joy in bed. As for how many times a week I get it... LR comes and stays at my house Friday nights. We make love that evening and somtimes again in the...

All I can say is WOW!!!! I have a shit load of responses but to be honest... I just dont have the energy to write it all out. I read through all the newest posts lastnight, LR asked me to add my two cents, but to tell you the truth I was exhausted after reading all of it.:( I know that most...

When you have a scab that is annoying you and you keep picking at it what do you do? You put a bandaid on it. You remove it from your sight and work on healing the wound. From the time that they started the affair he was always near. Always LR had a thing for him going. He has lived in our...

This is LR's thread and Im not even sure its polite of me to write in it, but Ill answer a few questions and maybe help Mr get a better idea of the Father I am. I very much have always felt that being with LR meant no compromise on the whole GG and her cheating for ten years and it being ok...

I just wanted to Publicly thank GG for his support. LR is soooo correct, with out him OUR other kids would have unnecessarly suffered while Mom amd Dad did there thing for the oldest child. We have and would/will always take care of whatever child is in need of us, but the reassurance that we...

Do you mean like in the movie " Role Models" ?

One of the most ....releasing part's of my life was when my EX-wife and I could talk and really have a productive and non ( negatively ) charged conversation. It so much easier now to not have to be on guard or to have to defend myself or my family. Maca

Ditto from me too. Ohh and Hell... Mono you can text me that to ( in a manly brother sort of way of course) HAHAH Maca

I have several hang ups with rebuilding trust. 1) I spent 10 years living in a marriage that was full of lies and cheating. That has now changed in the last 17 months. But the relationship that they built was built behind my back and as a lie. SO I have this deep rooted disdain for the "...

I tucked a few cards into LR's carry on bag and on the drive in ( to the airport ) I had GG slip a small box, with a ring in it, in her bag as well. The pain meds are making me paranoid and pissy. Im trying to stay off of them but it hurts like hell if I dont take them. Not to mention I feel...

As the slow one in the relationship and as the one playing games ( intentional or not) I thought I would weigh in on this thread. I feel that if you already have a SIGNIFICANT relationship established ( especially one that directly effects the well being of children) and you decide that you...

Im sorry if I came across as defensive. That was not my intention. Its hard..... Im going to stop writing now and take a time out. Ill spend some time thinking and Ill come back to this tomorrow evening.

Absolutly, she can and should have alone time. I have tried to afford her that so many times and the answer is always " I cant" for some reason or another. We have both talked about the importance of taking a " time out" to regroup and give ourselves time to think. We have agreed that we need...

For what its worth, I wanted to express my gratifacation to everyone for giving there thoughts and inputs. Im making a mess of our relationship, Im hurting the only woman that I love and Im miserable. I suggested that I should move out because it dosnt matter how much...

There comes a point when its blatantly obvious that the person you love is is hurting more because of being with you then if they were without you. I have tried for a long time to "learn" to accept and love you the way that you want me to. To stand by and watch you move on with another man. I...

Hang in there my friend. I know its not easy, right now. Try and remember " growth mind set". I dont know the lesson but there is always one there. Big Hugs Maca

I have read through all the posts and I will now think on it. I dont expect that I will respond anytime soon. I have a shit load going on at the moment and not just with relationships. I dont have the time that some people do, to write on here. As a matter of fact I had to leave the house tonite...

The boundry rules that I have asked to change are the very ones that LR has posted about as being unfair and limiting to her and GG. Ones that I made in order to protect myself from being hurt further after years of being cheated on and lied to. Those rules were made over a year ago. I did say...

I have seen and I agree with you LR. I have also taken the time to explain that R is asking for things that ONLY come with time and effort. At the point that things stand now, there is an unresolved " conflict" that exists so time spent " earning" rights is not really happening. Not to mention...