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  1. maca

    Dazed and Confused: Life of Maca

    Seriously? I was caring enough for LR and my family and for your feelings when I said I would stay and work on understanding polyamory, why/how LR can love more then one. So I could get what? Laid? Money? Security? What did I get? I can get laid. I make enough money. I'm less secure being in a...
  2. maca

    Dazed and Confused: Life of Maca

    I'm sure we both would admit that the only time that an attempt is made to be "friends" is when LR has a shit fit about the fact that we are not friends. I haven't allowed myself to trust your intentions. I've known from the time of the affair that you want to be "with LR" enough that you were...
  3. maca

    Dazed and Confused: Life of Maca

    In due time.
  4. maca

    Dazed and Confused: Life of Maca

    I just got a chance to catch up on the posts on this thread. I believe GG and I will have to have a talk tonight. I'm not going to get into defending myself on the board or pointing out incorrect statements. I'll leave it up to GG to think on what he has posted as to what/why/how I do things in...
  5. maca

    Dazed and Confused: Life of Maca

    I'm very frustrated right now. Things seem to be like the tide. LR and I are up, and she and GG are down, then she and GG are up, and LR and I are down. It's wearing me out. There is this huge pressure for GG and me to make a friendship. I'm really struggling with this right now. LR has put a...
  6. maca

    Hey Mon, I really really enjoyed meeting you. We are going to have alot of fun in Aug. Thanks...

    Hey Mon, I really really enjoyed meeting you. We are going to have alot of fun in Aug. Thanks for bringing RP to meet LR. It meant alot to LR. LR is dead set that she is getting her motorcycle Lic before we get there. She wants to ride in front of you ( she likes to tease guys with the way a...
  7. maca

    Polyamory = people with more integrity?

    Dont worry brother If LR can try to handle my kink Im sure she can deal with a little Mono kink :P
  8. maca

    Newbies and Veterans.

    Dam I was going to say it sounds like you need a DOM:eek: But you killed that response ;) I can tell you that experience does NOT make dealing with relationship and personnal issues EASIER but as my Beautiful wifey said practice will make it easier to control yourself from doing stupid shit...
  9. maca

    Upset and Scared

    I will have to add to this thread. I had already been married for 10 years when LR told me about her being Poly. I thought I was going to die a horrible death by being burned from the inside out. We were married we have kids and I love her. Even with all those things going for us learning to "...
  10. maca

    hey brother

    hey brother
  11. maca

    Responsibility of Thirds......

    I have many thoughts on Friday evening but Im going to check myself ( unlike Friday).
  12. maca

    BDSM discussion

    I really have only begun exploring this role in LR and mines relationship. Im not really educated on the terminalogy. But I can say that being a Dom is not ( over all ) easy. Working on living a 24/7 D/s life with LR has many great rewards, but along with the rewards come responsibilites. I...
  13. maca

    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Hey I want to go to the girl meet up!!!! I need a girl friend !!!:D
  14. maca

    what if I'm just an asshole?

    HAHAHAH... Ill take that drink Brother. You may want to get two cause RP might just beat you a bit harder :p Ill save you and Ill keep LR behind me on my bike:D
  15. maca

    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Im srry that your having a rough time with your BF. It seems to be going around. But dont give up hope on us guys. <HUGS> Peace and Love Maca
  16. maca

    what if I'm just an asshole?

    Brother you dont know what your missing;) When LR ( on the back of my bike) wraps her arms around my waist and pulls herself up tight against me... DAM thats nice....:D If she gets relaxed and lossens her grip all I have to do is hit the throttle and she is holding tight once again:eek: OP-...
  17. maca

    New to this and dealing with jealousy

    Well, Ive had some time to think and went on a 4 mile walk today so I think I can give you my story. When LR " came out " to me I was in shock. I went for a walk ( with a bottle of 151 rum). I made a decision , like many of you, that I wasnt going to give up on our marriage. I didnt want to...
  18. maca

    New to this and dealing with jealousy

    LR suggested that I might be able to respond to this thread from" a been there done" that point of view. Im really not in a good enough place to write right now so I will take some time to formulate my thoughts and Ill respond in the morrow.I can tell you that there is a rainbow on the other...
  19. maca

    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Just a quick note about reading the 10 books that LR has bought, read and giving to one or the other of us to read. Between working 10-12 hours a day trying to get through the 5-20 emails that LR sends ( about relationships, Poly, ect..) Making dinner, spending time with the kids before bed and...
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