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  1. maca

    being bold in public

    You really need to copy paste this story to the " poly things that make you smile" This sounds like a great time!;)
  2. maca

    Pet Peeves

    UGGH I cant stand that one either. Or worse yet when someone sets the toilet paper on the back of the toilet so you have to twist up like a pretzel to reach it :confused:. Or ( god forbid ) the whole dam roll falls in the toilet and I have to fish out a 15lb log of wet TP out of the toilet :mad:
  3. maca

    Pet Peeves

    . YES and putting the toilet paper roll on backwards!!! The paper should come off the top not the bottom!!!:( Not putting the lid on the tooth paste.. It gets that hard ball of dried up paste stuck in the tip and thats gross!!:confused:
  4. maca

    Dealing with Health Issues

    Last night LR got to sleep in her own bed. I propped up the mattress with all the pillows from the couch, then we tucked a body pillow along her side and I kept my body pushed up against her other side (to keep her from rolling over). It was a bit uncomfortable, but well worth it. She needed...
  5. maca

    I just wanted to drop a heart felt thank you from me. Your post on LR's thread ....well it was...

    I just wanted to drop a heart felt thank you from me. Your post on LR's thread ....well it was somthing that she needed. We laid in bed talking about it for a long time lastnight. Thank you Maca
  6. maca

    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Sept 25th LR gave me a choice to make. She elevated your position in her life to the statues of mine.She put our marriage up against her relationship with you and you still dont realize your importance to her?I have to tell you, that makes me feel very unimportant. I completely changed my world...
  7. maca

    birth control for men

    Soooo... Im assuming that you ( OP) are wanting to remain free fluid with your partners? Because the best way for a guy ( besides the big "V" ) is a condom. Personally Im fixed and it was the best thing Iv done. But we have 4 kids already and Im counting the years till retirement.:D Peace and...
  8. maca

    Dating Married people

    I really dont have anything for you RP. Accept for a hug of course;) Ive decided to not date married ladys. That decision may change at some point but for the time being.... Although LR and I are doing well in our relationship Im not at the point that Im even looking for anyone else. Of...
  9. maca

    BDSM discussion

    LR and I had been moving along well in our exploration of our D/s relationship untill we found out that she was going to have surgery. At first I thought we would have to put things on hold, but I was so wrong. Her surgery gave me a chance to show her my complete commitment to guard, protect...
  10. maca

    Poly things that make you smile

    Thats it ??? Just extra entertainment??? :p Just kidding my Angel.:D Im glad you enjoyed yourself over and over and over again that night:eek: OPPS was that out loud?;)
  11. maca

    Please help-- feeling so insecure

    My wifey LR asked me to give my two cents (without reading hers first) about this situation. So, here goes. I will first echo everything that the others said. Having not read LR's post, I have a suggestion that I'm betting will help you feel better about yourself and the love you share with...
  12. maca

    Symbols of commitment

    Although LR has a wedding ring ( that I designed) Im also making her a collar to be worn everyday. I have a design for a very formal collar ( that would only be for special occasions) but Im not good enough ( yet) to make it. I could have it made but < shrug> I like to be unique and LR deserves...
  13. maca

    Dealing with Health Issues

    Okay, everyone. She is in surgery. GG and I were there to send her off. I think it helped a lot having both of us there. We all slept on one mattress together last night. I was a bit naughty. (I'm that way by nature.) Needless to say, no one got any sleep. LR wouldn't have been able to sleep...
  14. maca

    Multi-partner cohabitation

    To give a slightly different point of view.... MINE.. :) of course I'm Dazed and Confused. :p I have often wondered if it wouldn't be better for me and good for GG, if GG lived on his own. I have several reasons for wondering this, some of which have nothing to do with LR, myself or poly...
  15. maca

    Difficulty in New Dynamic

    Ok.... As I said before " my tounge hurts from bitting it for weeks now". I havent "gone off" on GG as of yet. Im trying to be patient and understanding. But really ? I mean LR and GG have been "together" for years before it was offical. I would think that if LR was willing to risk her...
  16. maca

    heya brother, I need you to PM me your address. LR and I are planning our trip to see you :)

    heya brother, I need you to PM me your address. LR and I are planning our trip to see you :)
  17. maca

    Difficulty in New Dynamic

    I removed that part after talking to you about how you felt that it read like I was saying you were a dumb ass. I dont feel that way at all. I just hate how all of GG's friends think that your a controlling bitch. You wanting him to step up and be more " of a man" shows that you are not wanting...
  18. maca

    Difficulty in New Dynamic

    Ok, I havent been responding to this issue publicly for many reasons. 1) I can't keep being GG's alter ego, I cant do everything for him. He needs to grow up and be a man. 2) If I was to go to that " game night", GG wouldnt bring LR up but I would have and I had palnned on bringing it up...
  19. maca

    Marriage in the Poly Context... Sharing and Seeking Advice

    I can see and appreciate where your heart and where your desires are. I will chew on this for a bit more. Being a two time loser ( in what I believed marriage meant) Im skeptical. But one thing Ive learned is that fear based ideals are often misplaced. So thanks for your point of view it may...
  20. maca

    Marriage in the Poly Context... Sharing and Seeking Advice

    LR and I are actually discussing this ( sorta ) topic. Marriage that is. To me Marriage holds a symbol of rank in the commitment of love. Lr does not believe in ranking love. I understand her point of view about this matter and I dont fault her for being who she is. On the other hand I am ME...
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