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  1. maca

    D/s and poly

    ***** THIS IS LR ON MACA'S COMPUTER************** Good lord I need to go to bed! Mono-I'll answer your post in the morning. RP-what's up is that now that Maca has figured out he is poly-we're working on a boundary list that is more pertinent (previous list really only addressed me since I...
  2. maca

    First Date for the "other" partner....

    When I refered to love making I was refering to the fact that It was tender, not rushed,not done without feelings. I didnt want to treat her like a toy to be played with. She has feelings also and she deserved to be treated that way.To me love making and fucking are a difference of mind set.LR...
  3. maca

    First Date for the "other" partner....

    I think I can speak for LR on one point. Any thing asked or stated on this board will not offend ither of us. The hard questions are allways the ones that people avoid for themselves.There also the questions that need to be asked and answered in order to grow. I know that LR's purpose in this...
  4. maca

    Thirds in a V-from the perspective of a hinge

    I really shouldbe working right now:).But LR put all this time and effort into starting this post, Its only fair that I read it and then I felt a need to respond... I respect LR's and GG relationship and In all areas Im willing to consider BOTH of there opinions first and formost. That being...
  5. maca

    Quoting Nyx to expand on a thought

    Hmm well fidelity huh? Lover you allways have to bring up the hard questions:) I used to believe that fidelity only dealt with sex. Now I know that its much more then that. For instance if your wife/husband was having a sexual affair how would you feel? Then think on this. If your wife/husband...
  6. maca

    First Date for the "other" partner....

    Lover , you are a great soul. Your my friend , wife and my lover.I have and I am learning so much in this life with you.I have heard," I dont even know who you are" so many times in the last two months, its scary. I'm me , I'm open, I'm true. I'm glad you have finally stopped living your life to...
  7. maca

    So. A little envious?

    I can honestly say I know exactly what you are going through Macbeth.I have been checking out the net looking around. But to be honest I have just recently decided to just hang back and let things happen TO me and not try and make things happen FOR me. That being said I have now meet two...
  8. maca

    Happy day!!

    Doh I thought you said you wanted to change the subject??;) Hope RP dosent kill me:eek: J/K you are a riot Mono Some days its good to be able to cut loose and laugh out loud.
  9. maca

    Happy day!!

    HAHAH I allmost choked on my dinner when LR told me your post response.:D
  10. maca

    Happy day!!

    Ill respectfully decline looking at that bro.:eek:But you can have fun Lover;)
  11. maca

    Happy day!!

    Hmm I was at the castle today I should have gotten LR a collar!! There is allways tomorrow:p
  12. maca

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    What exactly are you insinuating????HMMMM :D:p
  13. maca

    Happy day!!

    So as LR stated I had "The Talk" with my Father.;) He was supportive and energetic and loving. His bottow line was " Son if it makes you happy then its all good" I was very worried. He is my best friend and my Father. I went through some really roughtimes just the two of us after my parents...
  14. maca

    Got friend invite from Mountain boy. I have to get back to work, Have an inspection across...

    Got friend invite from Mountain boy. I have to get back to work, Have an inspection across town so need toget headed that way. See you in a few hours.
  15. maca

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    That's great, Mono! I came out to my father today. I expected that he wouldn't give me flack about it, but I didn't expect him to tell me that whatever it takes to make me happy was good by him. Then to make things even cooler, he told me that he and his wife were swingers (on occasion). :eek...
  16. maca

    Telling someone I'm poly and the problems that brings...

    I cant really comment ither way.( Im not out looking). I figure Ill just let the chips fall as they may. Open and honest is the best way( and it sounds like you were being that). I would have to say that in one sense you can use this to weed out the guys that just want to "get with you". If they...
  17. maca

    Doing anything for halloween tonight?

    LR , C, our sis in law and myself are dressing up as the charecters from Scooby Doo. Im going ot be Fred , LR is Daphne, sis inlaw is Velma and C is Shaggy. We have a stuffed Scooby doo dog that we are going to tote around with us. Hittign a favorite Bar of ours that does Karaoke. Not sure Im...
  18. maca

    I need advice

    First, let me start with I feel your pain. Not but a few months ago I was in your shoes. I felt like there was no way LR could love me and love someone else at the same time. It made me feel like I must not be enough for her. Boy, was I wrong! We are so much fuller in love with each other and...
  19. maca

    Insecure? Be Aware.

    Thanks for the book suggestions RP.LR couldnt find them at the book store near where we live so she is going to order them online. The triggering communication talk makes sense and as you stated the opening lines to that communication are the most important.( so as to not further an argument)...
  20. maca

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Knowing who I am and why I'm that way sure has helped me. Also knowing who LR is and why has made it much easier to see things from her point of view. That was the first step (doing that test) I took in learning more about myself.
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