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    going mono? dating a mono? accckkk!!

    how do you navigate potential relationships with people who DON'T want to date you as long as you're in another relationship? Is this just immediately a "hard stop" in your interest in them or do you try to educate them/get them to come around. My partner struggles with this currently. He's...
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    parents and their response to your lifestyle choices....

    We recently were confronted by my Mom. She asked if I had a boyfriend (answer:yes) and if my husband had a girlfriend (answer: yes). Now, I know she's ultra conservitive and has very different ideas of "right" and "wrong" than we (hubby and I and our OSOs).... but she decided to ask us anyway...
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    Couples seeking couples versus individuals

    I've seen people mention that they are are seeking a couple rather than individual relationships....so I'm just curious as to what the reasoning is for not wanting individual relatiionships...
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    My loves story

    I've never had much faith in monogamy. My heart has always been so full on love and energy that I've felt I've been selling myself short when I've been in a monogamous relationship. But dealt with it in my own way of either being faithful or developing what might be thought of as inappropriate...
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    a blogspot blog

    I made a blogspot blog that I am going to use to write about my relationships and emotions and what not... I'm looking for other people to contribute. If you're interested, feel free to shoot me a message :D
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    single or married (your preferences for secondary/etc relationships)

    My husbad and I have been having a debate and I wanted to put it out there.... When you're looking for other people to "date" or "form relationships with," do you feel that there's a difference between being with other people who have their own "primary" or are "stray singles" okay? That might...
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    not really "new" to polyamory...but...

    ...new to attempting to make friends who are "in the same boat" as me... with whom I can talk about this amazing lifestyle that allows us to expand our relationships through opening our hearts to others outside a traditional marriage. I would love some new friends (especially females - as...
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