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debrief should be easy. she has said that she will hold all contact with him for a week or 2 once I get home. that way we can focus completely on each other, reflect, reconnect and refigure our guidelines to keep our marriage safer in any future endeavours.

I can see where that might come into play, but he has always been pretty straight with me, so I don't think thats the case. from the get go, he didn't want to disrupt our marriage. he didn't want to hurt our kids. he didn't even want to get involved because she was married but my wife is...

wow, I can't believe it's been almost a week since I've posted news in here. well, I'm not entirely sure what is happening with mama and the BF. she says that they can't be in a relationship anymore but she still wants to be friends. I've talked to him and he seems to be having a harder time...

I've been chatting with a girl on yahoo messenger for a couple days. I sent her a message on OKC and actually got a positive response back. nothing hot, nothing sexual, just kinda feeling each other out. it's long distance so we'll see how it pans out.

just biding my time. hopefully I'll be on my way home in 3 weeks.

welcome to the site Mike.

I was introduced to mama 4 maybe 5 months after my 1st wife and I seperated. we've now been married almost 8 years. I don't think there is a specific time period, you just kinda know when you're ready to try again.

1. just keep reading. there are a lot of stories here and I'm sure you can relate to any one of them. 2. I'm not sure about Argentina specifically but I know this website is worldwide. 3. it does not have to end in divorce. communication is key. take it slow, don't overwhelm him. at first...

I'm still not sure of they are going to make it. mama has suggested again that he should find a local GF. he doesn't seem to want to. I think he is hoping that someday she will leave me for him. she has assured both me and him that it won't ever happen. he is jealous of me and he is also...

finished checkpoint number 2 on the list of things to do before I go home. #1 is the mandatory password change on our discrepancy database (how we know whats wrong with the helo's) did that last week. #2 is my PIMS (deployment eval) next up is my post deployment health assessment. an online...

I sent mama a dirty dirty dirty email, describing the things I'm going to do to her when I get home. ;)

welcome to the site.

apparently they had a big fight about this last night. he thought saturday was supposed to be his day and felt blown off because mama was spending time with her friends. I guess he really blew his top about it. he quit smoking a few weeks ago and blames the withdrawals. mama and I had a nice...

I skyped with mama and the kids last night. I love talking to her on skype, I can see her face so it makes me feel closer to her. after I went to work, she sent me an email asking for me to call her so I did. looks like her and the BF's NRE is over. not for sure but they may be done. I talked...

gotcha. on a trip like this, we usually luck out. customs comes to us. they inspect our stuff at work, then we get on the plane and go. when we stay overnight somewhere, whatever stays on the plane doesn't have to be reinspected, so we all carry a 3 day pack for the hotels and such. it's still a...

C-130's are more for transporting troops and cargo. they can fit a tank or 2 in them but the C-5 is the ginormous one. they hold helicopters. customs is always a pain. if you think it's bad trying to fly within the states, it's even worse trying to fly into the states.

it's July!!!! I know, I'm a day late but work has really picked up this past week. July means that at the end of the month (possibly the beginning of next month), I'll be home. it's all about getting to the checkpoints and hoping that time doesn't stall on me. the second half of the month is...

I'm currently in the middle east, heading back to the east coast. C-130's don't fly very fast.....I have to bring my own snacks and normally the flight attendants aren't very cute, at least not for me ;).

I'm definitely gonna need all the strength and support I can get. she makes 1 more trip to NY before I get home. there's alot of good people here.

welcome.