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My record was 9 in 24 hours when I was in my early 20s. I'm not so sure I can do that anymore. I'm always up for seconds. If and when that happens, she's never up for thirds. I still ask, though.

:eek: :eek: :eek: Once a month?? That's absolutely horrible. I could never let that happen. I would go crazy. :eek: :eek: :eek:

I've been there. My wife was friends with her BF in high school. They lost contact for a long time then reconnected on Facebook. When I first met him, I wasn't sure whether to punch him or shake his hand. I took the road less travelled and shook his hand. We are slowly becoming friends and I...

it sucks but it's all part of the job. 40 something days til I go home.

bed

Honestly, I'd probably stop doing just about anything to have sex. Dinner? I can eat later. Change the oil in the car? It can wait. Mow the grass? it's just going to keep growing anyway. New shelves in the garage? It's been sitting on the floor for this long. Work? Hold on, I'll call and tell...

Maybe it's hit or miss. Personally, I have NEVER turned down sex. I would walk away from the computer right now if the offer was on the table. I enjoy it way too much. My wife however, has turned me down more than once. "We don't have to do it everyday." I say no, but I'd sure like to. I got a...

fish

lucky for me, this one is only a 4 month det. normally they are 6 months plus. I also deal with it, just like I have every other time but I'm really hoping for at least 3 to 4 times a week when I get back. thanks for the support.

dry

Personally, as well as talking to my wife, I've found that talking with her BF calms my nerves sometimes. It's one thing to hear from her that everything is ok. It's something completely different to hear it from him. He and I have become fairly decent friends. I think we'll be better friends...

it could always be worse. I'm on deployment and haven't had sex in 2 months and It'll be 2 more months til I get home. there's alot of porn out there but sometimes masturbation just doesn't cut it.

male, heterosexual

so far, today is a good day, but it's still early. I got to talk to the wife when I woke up which always makes me happy. we talked a little about her BF and how he was doing. I got to see the kids. technology is a beautiful thing sometimes. I remember my 1st deployment after we were together. we...

I'm starting to understand that. I know that we have both changed since we first met. it's just hard to come to terms with sometimes. lucky for me, I'm not the only one who struggles with it. I thought I was until I found this website.

sour

at this moment, I can't really begin any journey other than talking to other people via online. I'm currently deployed. I can use this as an outlet for my feelings though until I get home to my loving family.

here's the link to my original new to poly post. it describes my wife's journey into poly and my feelings....etc. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10613

transit - The act of passing over, across, or through; passage. apparent - Readily understood; clear or obvious transitapparent - obviously, I'm going to go somewhere. this is kind of the story of my life. I was born in Germany at a US Army hospital. from that time until I set out on my own at...

I'm a newbie to this too and I will agree it's a roller coaster ride of emotions. my wife approached me and I agreed, we talked, but afterwards, I had second thought after second thought. fear, anger, jealousy, shame. I've felt them all and still do sometimes. she now has a bf, I'm still on the...