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welcome to the site. there is alot of useful information here. it seems to me like there are very few topics unaddressed.

any violation of trust hurts, this is true. I think sex is put so high on a pedestal because it's such an interpersonal thing. even in a monogamous relationship, I don't believe there is anything saying that you can't love other people. you love your friends, you love your new extended family...

wow, I read through this whole thing and I saw so many things I wanted to quote because they were right on. my favorite saying which is similar to what ghandi said is "church would be great if it wasn't for the christians" they talk the talk but they don't walk the walk. not all of them, I...

hmmmmmm you dazzle me with your common sense ;). I'll give that a shot. I'm just counting down the days until I get back home. I hate negotiating over skype and facebook.

it is hard to manage a marriage in the military, especially during sea duty. being away from home sucks. I miss my family but obviously I'm not the only one. It is possible that I was trying to control what was happening between my wife and her new BF. I am starting to realize, especially be...

it's possible that my parents might understand....possible, but a stretch... my wife's parents would disown us and probably send a preacher to our door. not good.

honestly, I can't begin to tell you what they might be thinking. all I can go by is what they tell me. they meet a couple (or a single guy or girl), have dinner and talk, if they click they go to the bedroom. guys with girls, girls with girls, trading wives etc... is there any love involved?? I...

I have never tried to mold my wife. I have let her do whatever she wants to do. I have sent her to school when she wanted to go. whenever she gets bored with a job, I encourage her to fiind another one if thats what she wants. she is quite the opposite. when we first met I was a smoker, a...

maybe I should clarify. I used to look at an open marriage as exactly that. a marriage that brought others in strictly for sex. I always heard love your spouse, everything else is just sex. I am now looking at it from the loving others stand point. it broke my heart because after 8 years, I was...

my wife and I have been married for 8 years. Dec of last year she reconnected with an old high school friend. they did alot of what I thought was harmless talking. then she asked me what I thought about an open marriage. I wasn't really sure what to think. my mind went straight to casual sex...

hello, I'm 33 and married. we're both new to being poly. she brought up the idea and altho I'm still in the shock, fear and jealous stage (she had someone picked out before she brought it up to me) I'm working on it. we live in Va but I'm military and on deployment right now. I figured, I'm a...