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Just to set things straight It was not my suggestion to "boot" LR out of OUR room. In fact she was the one that offered because she didnt want me to spend the money on a hotel. Im respoinding to these posts as I read them ...so This may be old news by now.... I have come back to LR and told...

There really is only one way to know, Lover. I cant make you believe me or trust my words but I can tell you that, having to face my own insecurities and fears has changed my prespective. In the last few days, I have not only been at ease with you and GG but Ive not felt the instictive...

Wow, Um I feel a little over cooked. This is LR's vent thread so I will refrain from posting a long reply. She is a very loving and patient person and I do love her. That is all I will say at this time. Opening my mouth when I feel hung on a cross has ALWAYS caused me more heart ache and...

I had a chance to talk to my friend E. She asked if we could meet this next Monday. I have told her the depth of the relationship that I want and that Im not in the market for a FB. I think she is good with that and is wanting to talk about what that means in regards to her and I. Im hopeful...

I dont think LR has been to Homer ...ever. If she has it was a long long time ago. I dont get down there often. But if I had a reason to come down I would drag LR along with me and make a weekend out of it.

Ive began keeping a calander of the important things (to me) that LR and I share together each day. Its helping me see that she isnt abandoning me when she puts her focus on GG. There is a certain power in knowing that I can tell her " LR I need your attention for a min". I ASSUMED that if she...

Yeah what she said....:confused:

Well Im in hell !!!!! OHH Wait a min???? Yup its STILL Alaska.:eek: I do love it up here, but I was so looking forward to seeing some new places and being closer to our friends in Canada.

I know the root of my issue is not GG. I even know what/where the root of it is/began. GG is just one of the triggers that brings it back. There are other triggers. This last time around it was a woman that I had been seeing. It wasnt anything she did wrong it was just......the emotions that...

I scored!!!!! HEHE I like saying that :P 37% Physical touch ( thats a shocker ;) ) 27% Quality Time 20% Words of Affirmation 13% Acts of Service 3% Receiving Gifts

So I've seen a pattern forming within myself... I will do real good, for awhile, fighting off my insecurities. Then somthing will trigger my old insecurities and off the deep end I go. So whats the right way to get past your insecurities??? Bury them so that they dont rear there ugly heads or...

Well yesterday was our one year anniversary of being Poly. We had a hugh blow out and it dam near ended in divorce. Is being poly worth it? I believe it is but I will say its not easy or the "magic pill". Like everything in my life, its a never ending learning process. Maca

Thanks guys. I hope LR and E like it... Cant really erase it :eek: I sent a pic of it to my Dad he loved it and he knew that its was done for him. Of course he said "you didnt have to do that" I was like " yeah no shit Dad, I wanted to do it" :D He is so dam cool Maca

As much as I would rather have LR with me, I can truly say that what I've learned about mental Domming from a distance is becoming a real addition to our D/s relationship. I'm very excited to put both those worlds together at the same time, in the same place. The emotional and sexual build-up is...

So all this time on the board and I still dont know how to put pics up on this thread. :( So you all will have to go to Face book link:P Maca

You all are to dam funny:D I need a can for a unicorn. And a box so I can bring her with me :P

hey beautiful:)

My last post on this thread got terminated abruptly (work). I was talking about "brats" and my way of dealing with punishments for that intentional behavior. I will say that although it is very powerful (at the right times), I have very rarely, in fact, only once, ever had to do that to LR. She...

I do enjoy the "playfulness," but I'm not really interested in a "push my buttons" sub. If you know what my buttons are and you intentionally push them, the result is not a punishment that they will enjoy. In fact, the punishment will be no punishment, nothing. Sometimes less is more. Because...

As a guy whos wife came out and said she was poly. I have to agree with Ari. Take your time, do your homework and above all else learn to be introspective. You have to start by knowing who you are and what you need/want. Research this board there is a ton of great info that all us "old timers"...