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I feel like someone who is bi-polar. And I feel like she takes every time I mention another person in this relationship out on me. More and more, I feel like she hates me for this. I don't feel like she trrusts me with anyone but her. I don't feel like i'm allowed to be with friends unless...

some of genebean's family is a little difficult to get along with. They hate anyone who is different, and anyone who won't band to what they want. because of that, her family doesn't like me. Well half of the familt doesn't. We live, until august, with her mother. Don't misunderstand, we all...

nycindie, you're right, i guess i didn't realize i was making such broad generalizations. that said, i still think many people are incredibly male/female based. Sex with one is fine, but the other is a big no-no. Ok just to clarify: when i say "sex," i mean dating, infatuation, etc. I don't...

this has been a rough day. I can't feel guilty for looking at other wemen. So i'm not going to anymore. I'm no longer going to feel guilty for having sexual desires for anyone else. Or even for masterbating any more, it does me no good, and it is only natural. I'm not going to feel guilty...

why is there such a line between genders? that is when it comes to sex? Most guys I suppose would probably consider their girlfriend/wife having a three some with another person assuming it's a woman. Many wemen would consider having a three some with their boyfriend/husband, assuming it's...

soo, this weekend... as time goes by, more and more, I think she wants to be poly/open herself, but doesn't want to/can't deal with the idea of me being poly/open. She bacame very upset about it this weekend, and kept telling me it was because she isn't good enough. I don't know how to...

nycindie, I suppose I deserve that in lu of past events. But I really do want relationships, not just other sexual partners. I feel as though if she cannot handle me having sex with others, how could she possibly handle love, or making love for that matter? dingedheart, I don't think...

so here i am, day.... well, roughly 7 or something like that. today, I'm feeling pretty good, better than yesterday and much better than the day before that. we are probably going to see geanbean's new (not official yet) boyfriend this weekend, and I'm very much looking forward to it. whether...

well, we don't have to all be together all the time, but bonding time is nice.

I am very much his friend, and and I think those times hanging out in the car are an important bonding experience for all of us. It was a little awkward after they had sex, and I was driving him home, but I know we can get over that, and learn to lauch about it soon enough. plus we only have...

assuming all parties have tested, and we agree it is ok. And no one steps outside of the closed agreement set forth. If someone has a new partner, then it's time once more to wrap that willie, until they are both tested. It may be a pain in the ass, but it's better than the serious deseases...

oh, I agree. haha, no no, it's not like that at all. I was very occupied, working on my hotrod outside, while they were inside going at it. It's not like I was sitting next to the door, waiting for them to finish. The issue came up, when I needed something from inside, and had to get...

i'm feeling much better today, sometimes a night of passion is exactly what the doctor ordered. I'm glad her experience with her friend didn't hurt our love life. I knew it wouldn't, but I did fret it a little.

as per your question nycindie, um, yes and no. She is not really dating either of them, but does have a small attachment to the woman, and although she's not "officially" dating the other boy, she is in love with him, and visa versa.

interesting, I suppose I hadn't considered the environmental ramifications of burningman itself. If nothing else, I don't want it to ruin our burn. I know she wants to sleep around a little out there (she told me as such). She likes irish guys, and she already told me she wants to sleep with...

oh, and the end date is this year at burningman.

well, in swallowing my pride, I meant sometimes in life we have to accept the things we can't change for now. And that is what i'm doing. it is difficult, but I know I need to have jealousy and ego and whatever else removed from the situation, and creating inequallity I believe will help me do...

last for today, i'm feeling better, thank you all.

thankyou both. I appreciate your input, and I agree with you. I guess I could add a little more info. so I agreed to let her do what she wants (within reason), because I feel it will help her understand that when i'm with someone else, it doesn't take away/devalue our relationship. I want...

so here I go, my very first blog. Feel free to respond/tell me i'm an idiot, or agree with me on certain issues. So, here's the back story. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over four and a haalf years now. And though we haven't been perfect, we love eachother very much...