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I know I have to slow down to spare her feelings, but how do I do it while sparing mine as well.

so the girlfreind and I decided we were going to try poly a while ago, we played around once, and it upset her to no end. She wants to take things slow to help her not break heeself. I on the other hand feel like i'm ready and wanting more. I guess what I need help with is how do I feel...

a woman after my own heart, welcome! I don't look like the average nerd, far more rockabilly, but am definitely a geek at heart. I hope poly works out for you, it can be a wonderful choice.

hey there I tend to think this is a lack of communication issue, and not so much anything else. Many poly folks sit down and hammer out their feelings, and boundaries into one (or usually far more than one) sitting. Tell your wife she doesn't need to feel guilty about telling you her...

hey there Ms. Confusedbigirl, first off, let me say welcome. secondly, your story is about the same more or less to about half of the people here. So you're not alone. Lastly, there are many people who are open/becoming open to that kind of relationship, after all, that is the reason these...

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As a dancer myself, I've dealt with similar problems. My girlfriend became very jealous when she first saw me dancing with another girl, a ballerina, at that. It took some doing, but I finally convinced her it was nothing more than dancing. Even if it were more than that, there are only two...

good article, it is almost a systems approach to jealousy. Remove the underlying causes, you remove the problem.

no, it's ok, that is the reason she posted, she wants to hear from everyone.

rednecks

I love you baby, and you are irreplacable.

cougar

I see, well i'll have to type to them...

this is one of my biggest reasons for being poly. Before I came to understand/love the idea of polyamory, I accidentally kissed another girl while in a relationship. I felt inredibly guilty, and the gf flipped. It took her like 6 months to get over, even though the woman kissed me, and after...

aww, thankyou, yeah I decided sometime ago I wanted an open relationship for numerous reasons. It took the lady love a little longer to consider, contemplate, and comply. For me being poly is more about freedom than anything. We read "The Ethical Slut" together (if you don't know it, it is...

four-thousandth! (response that is)

certainly

i'm glad to hear you are ordering that book, my girlfriend (genebean) and I are reading it. It's a tough read sometimes, but is absolutely great.