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Most of this really has nothing to do with OUR situation, as none of us were actively seeking a poly relationship. They weren't considering 'opening' their relationship and I wasn't looking for a couple to be a part of. One bit of your post does resonate a bit. As I've read a lot about being...

Congrats!!! How exciting!

YAY for figuring out the issue! I'm glad you're able to see your true feelings through the smoke and work on getiting back there. Once you get through this you will be stronger than before. *hugs*

Hello... Welcome to the boards!

lol I'm not sure what to say. :p I'm quite an introvert and usually don't speak up without being asked (downside, especially when in a poly relationship... I'm working on that) or in response to something else. I wouldn't know where to start.

This thread wasn't quite what I was expecting, so not sure what to add here. Especially as our relationship does not fit into the catagory of the primaries 'opening their relationship' to find me. At this point I really don't have much to add here, but possibly if things take a different turn I may.

I'm glad some things have started to be worked out. *hugs* It's a good first step in the right direction on this issue. I'm so glad to hear you guys were able to talk and feel a bit better.

You're right Red Pepper. My bad. I forgot about F's husband as well. I agree the primary relationships are the first priority. I do think he needs to know if there's even a possibility of a relationship though. If not, he can continue working on the relationship with his wife and try to get...

Will do Mono. I can't speak from the position of one of the primaries BUT, I can from someone from a place of confusion and hurt. What I will say here is V, you need to do a bit of soul searching. Sit quietly, relfect, meditate if you do that, try to get to the core of why everything seems...

am I supposed to respond here or wait for the new thread to be started? I'm going to quickly reread this thread so everything's fresh in my mind as I've read it all over several days, and respond to V's issue. As for the issues of the third, if that's what you're refering to Mono, I shall...

You're welcome. And yes, I finally have found my peace. You're defenately not a monster. Your feelings are what they are. I hope if you decide to speak to your wife she will listen and not freak out. It only has to be a discussion. Not something you're defenately going to do. A possibility...

In some cases, those feelings just wont go away. No matter how long you try to deny them or how much you want them to. Believe me. They tortured me for three years and guess where I ended up. It is a bit of a sticky situation, but the way I see it you have two options. Keep going along trying...

Hello. Welcome!

The kids are just a bit too young to actually pay attention to getting to and from many places. Will try to redirect. hhmmm.

Well, the friend is a mutual friend of ours. And she's got a horrible headache and not coming tonight. I've got the kids to take care of and I don't know my way around well enough to really go do much with them. So we'll pretty much be hanging around the house. Not even sure how to get to...

The two older ones are at school for the day. This evening a friend is coming with her two girls to stay the weekend, but it's not the same.

I'm so glad the doctor was open-minded and saw that your son was just fine. *HUGS* Hopefully things will start to get better, and her therapist is just as open-minded and can help her deal.

*sigh* My loves went away for the weekend for a trip with AB's employer. Looks like it will be great fun, but I miss them already. They've only been gone about an hour and a half. I have the kids here, but I'm sad knowing I wont see them until Sunday night. I know they need this time away...

YAY!! that's so great!! Hopefully Mom will get the hint now and realize it's not hurting anyone

I can understand the excitement being held back. Was this before you got the info on how the trip actually went? I'm glad things seem to be going in the right direction for you *HUGS*