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  1. aussielover

    hello out there

    Welcome! Sounds like a great little family! Congrats! Yay for him being open with you right away :)
  2. aussielover

    Need help

    Thanks Sorry about that. Have a bit of a clearer mind today. She's assured me over and over that she's not done anything. Call me foolish, but I'm inclinded to believe her although I am defenately remaining cautious. Things have been fairly calm the past couple of days. She says she doesn't...
  3. aussielover

    Need help

    yeah agreed they're both psyco, but the ex is here in canada. Going in 4 days. Tonight my bf is coming to take my cat *tear* and she's been alright. Not an option to come out earlier as I have too much to do here and she'll be gone in 4 days anyways. Luckily I'm working the day she's packing...
  4. aussielover

    Need help

    Thanks for all the support guys. xyz, I'm pretty good at reading when she's about to be physical after 11 years. I know when to back off and will not push her now as I know it wont take much. I have a coffee shop close by if I REALLY need to escape, and my parents are back in town on thursday...
  5. aussielover

    Need help

    That's awful!! Thankfully she's moving out of the country back to Denver, and I'm moving to Australia. So I wont have the stalker kind of stuff to deal with. That's pretty scary. As for sg & ab forwarding money, it's not that quick or easy. by the time it got here she'd be gone anyways. I...
  6. aussielover

    Queer Mama Moving to Make a Quad

    Hi And Welcome! I'm sure it will be worth it!! As my girl said, I've got quite a trip ahead of me! From Canada to Australia! But I know that will defenately be worth it too!
  7. aussielover

    Need help

    We had a pretty long chat about things last night, as the power went out, and didn't really have a choice. She's instistant she hasn't told them, which will be easy to prove as soon as they return from their trip I suppose, it's not like she can get away with that lie for long if she is...
  8. aussielover

    Unicorn?

    lol ah yes my avatar... That's not me actually... I wouldn't be silly enough to put up a pic of me on an open forum.
  9. aussielover

    Unicorn?

    hmm, well I don't do pink.... Nothin... noooo no pink. lol sounds good
  10. aussielover

    Need help

    They already KNOW she's been emotionally abusive. *sigh* I had a bit of a talk with her and told her I had a bad 'feeling' about some things... Like intuition. She swears she hasn't told them anything and would never call immigration on me. She was crying too and she looked sincere, so I don't...
  11. aussielover

    Need help

    Ok, so as you know I'm seperating from my ex atm. She is still living here until sat. then she's leaving. There has been a lot of bad blood as she sees my leaving her for sg & ab, which is NOT the case. Sg told a 'friend' about our situation, as I outlined somewhere else on here, can't remember...
  12. aussielover

    Unicorn?

    LOL Thanks. My girl suggested some sparkles and such, but I'm just not that kind of girl. Hehe I can grow it (I didn't even know I was one until recently) b/c I have my loves hehe ... I would think it would be harder if you were single. My loves... they claim me so no one steals me. (They don't...
  13. aussielover

    New to poly and needing help (triad)

    Hi, welcome. I'm sorry I don't have any words of advice, but I wanted to give you a hug *HUGS* I'm really sorry that happened to you. I'm not sure I understand how they could have forgotten about you when the whole point was for you to all be together. :(
  14. aussielover

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    LMAO That's funny. I'm doing the exact opposite for the same reason. Hope you're enjoying Canada. I'm off for Oz at the end of the month.
  15. aussielover

    Hello from Georgia

    Hello and welcome!! It's a great forum!
  16. aussielover

    Regional Poly Gatherings

    the poster poly family? hehe Is it a quad or an N?
  17. aussielover

    Regional Poly Gatherings

    We've seen that site :) Thanks for the link. I think it would be cooler to get together with you guys... lol can you imagine all of us in person. lol would be awesome.
  18. aussielover

    Regional Poly Gatherings

    ooh I'd love to go. Seems though we're all so spread far apart. :( And by then, I'll be in Oz too! (woohoo)
  19. aussielover

    Being by yourself

    I'm both too... but more needing to be around people. For me, I think it has EVERYTHING to do with WHO it is. My ex, even when things were ok, I needed alone time to think and just be. I much prefer small groups to large ones. Small gathering of friends at home is much better to me than going...
  20. aussielover

    Question!

    Lmao Berserker, you don't know what you're asking! hehe ...LOOOOOOOVE YOOOOOOU Sunshine hehe I had no idea on the hair issue...lol I'm not a big fan of change, so I dunno, pretty well I've had the same hair for forever, just gets a little longer or shorter depending on the season. Occasionally...
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