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Rob is terrible at catching the subtle little hints that I want his attention. I give him "the eyes" or "the slight tip of the head" and he either doesn't notice, or loudly proclaims, "What??" It used to bother me a lot, but now I just find it cute and funny one of the things that makes him...

So, for better or worse, whether it's coming from a healthy place or not, your partner is dreaming of poly in a hard way. It sounds like they have a lot of self-worth issues to work through and a lot of growing to do before they are ready for and able to bring about happy, healthy poly...

I was wondering what you think "full freedom" in social settings is? I mean, if they were with a bunch of friends, those friends would probably get annoyed if they started sucking face and being all NRE oozy on everything and everyone. So you shouldn't feel bad, imo, if even later you request...

We split up some chores tonight. I made dinner, Mr. A did the dishes, and Indigo is putting away the laundry. This means my husband is folding my boyfriend's undies. What an odd life this is!

I made a really nice beer butt chicken tonight, with baby red potatoes and a Caesar salad. We watched a movie together. Now, Mr. A is finishing the dishes and Indigo is putting away laundry. How odd ... my husband is folding my boyfriend's undies.

Oh, no worries over here. We can see you flip-flopping crazily, contradicting yourself, and generally worrying about what's reasonable and unreasonable to request. Vanilla must also be drowning in NRE at this point. Indigo was not great at expressing his needs at first, fearing he'd be too...

Save?? :eek: I hope not! Hehe

We're at a year, now. It was probably around 8 months when everything became close to natural. This. I've bolded all the important parts. ;)

Yes, you've really articulated yourself quite well here. How about just saying that?

If you don't like seeing them melt into each other around you, ask them not to do it. It's really quite that simple. Come up with a code word if you need to, whatever. It is Vanilla's dream to have a family with the two of you? She needs to take a cold shower and be more aware of how she is...

buahahahaha!

HMA, it's been nearly a year. Really, really, you're going to dredge all that up again? It was dreadful, on all sides. Please let it die, or message the mods privately.

I preemptively warned Indigo that if he saw divorce stuff in my browser history, it was NOT for him. :p

Your SELF worth, should be tied to your SELF, not anything you've done or created with her.

Yes, thank you, and yes. :)

CBT really does stand for cock and ball torture, which I'm pretty sure is what Mags was referring to. I thought the game was people were purposely coming up with other CBT acronyms and ignoring cock and ball torture. So I popped the CBT bubble! Anyway, it's not funny, now. :p

I don't know if showing the French government our government websites is enough, but here's the divorce stuff: http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/pub/divorce/divorce.html

I wonder how it works for cock and ball torture? Oh wait, I ruined the game ... :D:eek:

Okay, so the job opportunity people said they would call today if he had the job. And that if they didn't call, he did not get the job. And ... no phone call! I am still very, very hesitant to believe he's not leaving. Maybe they will call tomorrow. :mad: Here's the thing though, assuming he...

Hope things can work out better for everyone this time. :)