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The subject of arousal came up back in May after B & I got together. It came to a head for T & I & he point blank asked if I had finally taken a lover. It wasn't that I specifically said "He gets me wet & you don't." It was more that I wasn't able to hide not being particularly prepared. I found...

I orgasm with both of them, I just don't get wet for T while B has me dripping. I don't think anyone in the relationship is threatened by the presence of the others & in fact this has benefited everyone from a physical standpoint. Thank you for the recommended reading material I do agree that...

I find myself with a conundrum. I love T (husband) I love B (lover) but I have issues not being turned on by T while B drives me wild. Once the act is taking place I function just fine with T. I enjoy our foreplay & touching I just don't have the sexual response to him that he would like. I...

So as my husband and I have moved from an open marriage into a poly (for me & lover)/ super close FWB (hubby & lover's wife) situation I am overwhelmed at the closeness & caring we four have for one another. I never dreamed I would love 3 other people so much & that they would all be so...

As much as I don't like to label things sometimes it is easier for others to grasp a label. For instance, lover (BF, partner, idk) & I never intended to move beyond FB or FWB status. Now we find ourselves more emotionally involved. Our spouses are close FWB & are very understanding of our...

I just wanted to follow up on this thread. Things are going great. The 4 of us are going camping for the weekend. Hubby & I guess I'll call her meta are great friends with benefits at this point. Lover & I had a weekend to ourselves week before last. The others had dinner & a sleep over. I...

I train my dogs. They are totally my fur babies. I also groom at the local animal shelter & it keeps me in the moment as you have to be there when you're going at moving targets with sharp instruments. I've found volunteering to be extremely fulfilling so I feel as if I get more out of it than I...

I spent some time Thursday trying to help my husband through some feelings of insecurity. He kept apologizing for his feelings, which I don't believe anyone should do. This was my post to Facebook. He is not on there & none of my friends will understand the message but perhaps it may help you...

Thanks Kevin. Yes I do believe RRE may be what my husband and I are experiencing as well. I don't know how, when or if this relationships between 4 people will end but for now I'm just going with it.

So, I feel like my husband is my life partner. I love him & I don't see myself ever being without him. We've been together 17 years. Married for 12. BF & I are also in love. Best friends apart from being best friends with our spouses as well as being lovers & partners. We had long conversations...

So I've posted in previous threads about my BF B, husband T & BF's wife C. We got together for drinks last night & just love each other's company. B & C are at the lifestyle friendly resort for the holiday weekend. We were not able to spend the weekend as all of the people they share their...

GG thank you for the link. I just had an opportunity to read through the thread & it does fit this situation. I guess that I did have a huge drop in the nearly constant flooding of endorphins that weekend. I'm fairly certain that we will go to the resort as two couples again in the future. Now...

I also want to say that I love B for who he is. Crazy, promiscuous flirt & all. I don't want him to change in any way for me. He's never been anything other than himself & has had previous bad experiences where he tried to change for someone. C apparently got quite adamant that it was not...

:cool: I've dealt with sub drop. T is in to bdsm whereas I'm totally not. We played with it a little but I'm just not into it. I don't judge those who are but it's not for me. The crazy thing is that B's behavior which caused jealousy was prior to the super charged group sex with an...

Well in my previous post I outlined my new poly relationship. My husband (T), lover (B), lover's wife (C) & I did spend the weekend at a "lifestyle" nudist resort. Overall we had a blast & Fri T & C participated in "soft play." They fell asleep in one bed while lover & I took to the other...

Thank you for the encouraging responses thus far. I believe this is a good thing but it does seem very complicated to me lol. I'm glad to have found others who understand where I am at this stage of my life. Everything is so new right now.

So I've been married for 12 years & with my husband for 17 total years. Much of that time I've felt like I wasn't true to myself as I endeavoured to be a "good wife." After much discussion over at least a 4 year period we both agreed that it was time to open our marriage. Now I have no doubt...

So I'm a Southern lady who has always had poly tendencies. Primarily I'm here to see if anyone has a similar experience to mine but I'll save that for another thread :)