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I'm taking a break from dating. I need time to figure myself out and figure out what I'm really looking for out of life. I've been going with the flow for so long. I know that I could keep dating, and that there are plenty of people out there willing to date me. I think maybe it's time to focus...

The anxiety of what's going to happen next comes and goes. For the most part, I'm coping much better until I have too much time alone with my own thoughts. There are still random tears, and likely will be for a while yet. I don't like the random tears, especially when they choose to strike in...

Just when you think everything is settled and in place, something new happens. The past few days have been really rough. My boyfriend and his wife are going through some pretty serious stuff, and there's nothing I can do but be supportive and wait out the process. At this point, I have...

I hope everyone is having a pleasant holiday season. I am at peace and content with my life. I am well loved. It's been one of those years of massive change. My life undergoes a overhaul every 5-10 years and this was one of those years. I'm ready for whatever new adventures the next year brings. :D

I read something yesterday that said that some years are years for questions and that other years are years for answers. Looking back over this year I think it has been a year of answers for me. I made a decision after my car accident last December that I was going to chose to really live and...

Do the people who she's talking to know that you have access to all of her conversations? If I have a private conversation with someone I'm not sure I'd be comfortable having the contents of that conversation passed on to someone else. I think that it's OK for you to know who she's talking to...

My way of dealing with jealousy is by getting to a place internally where I would be completely okay with being alone. I much prefer to have people in my life and I treasure them greatly. But there is no fear in them finding someone else, because I'd rather someone be with me because they truly...

Unless you actually know something is going on, and aren't just basing your concerns over gossip that you've heard, I would stay out of it, for sure. At the moment, you've just heard through someone that she's seeing someone else. That may or may not be true. Going to your friend and telling him...

I haven't fallen off the face of the planet or anything. Just got busy living my life. :)

So it's my birthday today. I'm entering a new year of my life in a good place. I'm excited to see what the next year of my life will bring for me. The past year has taught me that anything you're going through, either good or bad, is temporary. Enjoy every moment of the good things and breathe...

You were blonde? Can't picture it.

I have never thought twice about wearing my rings. Although my husband doesn't wear his ever. I like my rings and I find it unlikely that I would mesh well with anyone who wasn't ok with the physical reminder that I'm married. It's a part of who I am. Although funny story, my daughter (6) asked...

I don't know what kind of person you are and what kind of thing you like to do normally. It sounds to me that you knew of these plans at least a little bit ahead of time. My first thought on what I might do in a similar situation is to plan and host an epic party. Do things you like to do that...

Just as a matter of interest I found this article that says that recent studies that have been done show no active sperm in pre-ejaculate. (However STI's are still very much transmissible). http://www.livestrong.com/article/15914-effective-pull-out-method-birth/

Thank you Ari. You rock too. It's so nice to see you back on the forum. It was also great seeing you in person last month. I'll see you again soon I hope.

A friend of mine died unexpectedly yesterday. Although I have only met her a handful of times in person her passing has left a hollow place in my heart. She was someone who was so full of positivity that it was infectious. I'm having a hard time actually believing that she is gone and that I...

Exactly. Rape is rape and no one has it coming EVER, regardless of what other horrible things they may have done.

There are laws on Jupiter?

Awww, thanks.

Manipulation and exploitation to get sex is rape. Full stop. Trying to dress it up to not sound so bad doesn't make it not rape. Your wife was raped, both during the BJ incident and by the other couple. Also, you have no way of knowing how much impact you may have had long-term on the women...