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Talk to her and agree to her rule only if she will call you and ask your permission every time she wants to have sex with her husband.

Oh hi, you came back...good to see you!

Compatible doesn't have to mean romantically and sexually compatible, though. People are going to fit into your life however they are going to fit. I think it's perfectly reasonable to want everyone to get along, and to click on some level, but finding someone to have that romantic/sexual...

It wouldn't matter to me how much telling your husband that his girlfriend isn't welcome in your house might impact their relationship. It's your house. You should feel safe there. You should have a say in who comes into your house. Unless people can be respectful and pleasant to everyone who...

Personally, I'd be concerned about Esther saying that she has no interest in dating anyone else. She may be one of those people who finds it easier to have affairs, rather than putting in the work required to talk everything out and put it all on the table. She's already shown that she will...

Unfortunately, you can't change the past, what happened at the beginning of your relationship with your spouse. No matter how much you wish things could have been different, it is what it is, and all you can do now is to move forward. There's nothing quite like poly to bring up every insecurity...

Hey, that's my line! I'm sorry that you're going through a breakup, Z. It sounds like you're well on your way to healing, though. There will be good days and bad days and it will take time to find your new normal.

I started lifting weights in January. I've noticed more changes to my body doing that than I have in the last 5 years of roller derby. I haven't really changed what I've been eating but I'm down 10ish pounds and probably look like I've lost closer to 15-20.

Derby is far superior to hockey and the fans are better too.

This isn't a poly post at all today. I've been seeing women write on here and on facebook about feeling less attractive as they age. I was watching a video of me yesterday at 19(ish) and I am so much more attractive than I was then. I feel that as I am aging that I am really coming into myself...

So I'm going to try this again. My computer decided to close down the internet last night as I was mid-post. Grrrrr. I'm working on being comfortable in posting here again. My world has been pretty shaken up these past couple of months. I feel like I may be finding my new normal now. There's...

You seem to have a lot of things working against you to allow things to develop organically with potential partners: - Your kids seem to not be aware of the fact that you're polyamorous, so you have to be very careful not to out yourself around them. - Your wife is setting limits on whom you...

Do you want to be seduced because YOU want to be seduced or do you want it because he's giving it to her? There is a difference. If you want more imaginative sex initiate more imaginative sex.

Summer is here. Our new trailer is decked out and ready to go. We have a couple of camping trips planned this summer. I'm really looking forward to summer. At the moment life is good and I am happy. I'm appreciating the sunshine and the happy. Living life for today. Whatever tomorrow brings is...

Yes, ask for what you need rather than putting arbitrary limits on how much time she spends with her bf.

My thoughts are: stay out of it. It's not your place to solve their issues. If you're uncomfortable listening to the disagreement, leave the room.

It's been another good weekend. I had feared that it would be a month again before I felt solid within myself. It seems that I've gone from feeling like I'm drowning when emotional stuff around breaking up with RP comes up to feeling like I'm losing my footing climbing a gravel covered hill...

So I thought things were settling down. The weekend before last was truly wonderful. I had a really good time and felt normal for the first time in weeks. So much for that lasting. I'm not sure what the life lesson is here but if it's life's hard and it's not fair, I got the memo, you don't have...

I can tell you from experience and observation that opening a marriage is not a death sentence to that marriage. Non-monogamy works for a lot of people. Yes people do still split up, but the cause generally isn't the non-monogamy but rather something else that isn't working in the relationship...

It's only been 3 weeks since you first brought this up. I'm sure your husband is dealing with a lot of conflicting emotions. How long did it take for you to come to terms with your own poly-ness internally? If there isn't anyone in the pipeline you might want to consider not talking about it...