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There isn't a secret formula to meet people who are going to fit into your lives. Going to local meetups in your area and just talking to people with no expectations is a good way to start. Triads that work are usually something people fall into rather than something they seek out. Many many...

Can you ask your hubby for a date that he can give you when you can revisit the idea of your girlfriend with him? If he really is working towards being ok with it he should be able to give you a timeline that you can work towards. I don't see anything wrong with DADT for the time being while he...

Ask for specifics of what you need. It sounds like you don't have a lot of time together with him being in school and you working long hours. Relationships do need time and attention to keep functioning. It sounds to me like you need some dedicated time to really be with each other without other...

If you still want a face to face with her see about arranging one. Even though it's over with her in a romantic sense it will be good to know what went wrong. It may very well be that it just isn't for her but there also might be something going on that could be changed in future relationships...

It was awesome. I'm feeling very loved and special. I don't want to have birthdays more often though, it would make me older quicker :)

So it's been a really long time since I posted again. I've just been all caught up in living life and haven't had a lot of time on the computer at all. Derby has been keeping me really busy this summer and with an undefeated season I'm pretty proud of us. I had a lot of new friends come and see...

Since poly seems to be an self identity thing I think you'd really have to ask him if he considers himself poly. Personally I wonder if he just does it to maintain an image. I don't know how emotionally involved he is with his girlfriends since it seems that they get to a certain age and they're...

I'm wondering if your soon to be wife had to agree to certain rules upon meeting you if the 2 of you were going to be together or if through the process of getting to know each othwr you developped the boundaries of where your relationship would lie together? In the case of the latter any other...

But it really isn't. It's a different way of relating to other humans. We all relate to each other and the fact that some of us want to relate to more than one person sexually or romantically really isn't all that different from mono people wanting to have friends at varying depths for different...

I'm wondering how long it's been since you opened your marriage. I'm also wondering if he's doing any work at looking into why he's insecure about other men being involved with you. These things can take time and work but he has to be willing to do the self reflection to figure out what is going...

If you have come across to your fiance the same way you have here I can see why she would feel threatened. When I was reading your original post it was sounding very much as though you view women as playthings. I imagine in her mind she's wondering if she is one of those playthings. I would...

I've recently changed my profile on a dating site that I'm on. I've found that I've been attracting a much more compatible group by saying what I do want rather than what I don't want. I think when things are phrased negatively that a lot of people who might be a match get scared off so you end...

If you've moved out of NRE and still feel that you love one partner more than the other on a consistent basis then maybe it's the right time to have a conversation about a change in structure or role for all involved. But after 8 months? Too soon and likely not a true reflection of what real...

What would you tell a friend in this situation? You're worth more than this.

I wouldn't walk away from these relationships just yet but I wouldn't move in yet either. Things are a little unsettled right now but I don't think that it's anything that can't be worked through. Chances are the husband thinks that he loves you more, but there's still that new spark between the...

I would insist that she finds a way to financially take care of herself. This will show you if she's actually interested in being in a relationship with you or not. I also notice a long history of dishonesty. That's going to be a hard one to fix. I'm sure at this point that you're having a hard...

After reading all of that the only logical conclusion I come up with is for you to leave him to get it over with before he leaves you. After all why would you settle with being with someone who doesn't want to be with you 100%. That's not winning in my book.

I was talking to a friend last night and I realized that I only post here when things are turbulent within me. Being how infrequently I post on my blog that must mean that there's a lot right with my world. In reality the little hiccups are nothing and a lot of the time I hide them because I...

I was so lonely last night for no good reason. I had a weekend filled with adventure (I went spelunking). And then as soon as I got home I was all alone. The kids are camping with their grandparents this week and my husband was out on a coffee date. There I was alone in the house with the...

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