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Yeah I know.. :o Yeah, that's something that is being discussed. What has come out of this is that maybe too much was expected from people, that it was thought that they understood all that, especially our friend who we have known for 19 years and had been in the group a while back, we...

LOL - Yup to all. And yes, all those steps were taken but the two individuals have reacted as I've just stated above. I just sometimes really get exasperated. A face to face conversation was going to be had with both individually as one lives in one town and another in the other, so it was...

Yeah, I suppose that was where I was going in my majorly long-winded way. :o We did ask them both that and they both reacted badly. She didn't want ot get over it and he said, "Nah, she's ok, I told her why I was breaking up with her". So she then via email decided to leave the group stating...

ooops, sorry, really, really didn't want to come over either a) judgemental or b) like we're interfering in people's lives.. Really not what we do, ever, and we would never, for example stop someone dating anyone etc. I've probably worded things very badly. My sincerest of apologies for that...

Yeah, sorry about the vagueness, I suppose I just wasn't sure if anyone would understand.. Dunno if I'm looking for advice as such, although it's always welcome as sometimes getting other's perspective is useful. The crux is - 2 people we know got together. We had an inkling something was...

Well, it's been a while since I've popped in here and life's certainly been 'interesting'... And this is with regards to people we know rather than I and my husband! The good thing is that we're certainly talking more. I'm waiting to hear when my appointment with a counsellor is so that's a...

Wow - Congrats.. As I'm at the very early stages with my husband it is certainly encouraging. Thank you for this update. :) Mari

Thanks so far guys. :o) I do look forward to chatting more and getting to know you all. I just wanted to post a quick answer before I went for the weekend. My husband has an Entertainment Magic thing on this weekend and I'm going with him as he wanted me to be with him on my birthday weekend...

Hi Lily, and thanks for the comments. Yes, if possible would you be able to pass me the information? Basically the waiting list I'm on is through our GP and as we've recently moved home I'm having to wait a little longer than I would have done. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you...

Hi, Well I'm finding my way around and have read a few threads and having chatted with my other half have taken the plunge to post on here so hopefully can have advise along the way. Although hypothetically in my head I was never against the concept of poly my husband and I hadn't really ever...

Hi, Just editing my intro as I realised that there is a section for 'new to this'.. So suffice to say, probably easiest to read that.. My husband and I are looking into poly and there were various issues linked to that which I'm putting in that 'new' thread. We have been together 18 years...