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A general topic of conversation on group tonight was ways in which being poly wasn't what we expected it to be. I didn't tsay anything because I'm shy and in general very newly poly, but I could think of some ways right off the bat. I think that I've become better at communicating my thoughts...

Spork, I definitely have abandonment issues and feelings of being unlovable. Like there is something so flawed about myself that no one is capable of loving me, especially if they get to know me. I have put up major barriers to letting people close to me in the past thinking that I have to hide...

I think I've had a minor revelation about why I'm having trouble trusting that he is a good person capable of caring for someone else (me). I think perhaps that since I feel used when I have casual sex (which is why I don't do it) I assume that the women he's with do too. Maybe i feel that he's...

Shaya That is my concern.....that he's using people for masturbation. I question the integrity of someone who can do that. I masturbate, sure......but I don't use people to do it. It all hinges really on whether they are masturbating with him too or whether they get hurt sometimes. He said sex...

After reviewing the evidence, my sub-conscious, and talking with him and observation I believe that he truly cares for me because he spends a lot of time building the relationship outside of sex, is clearly distrout about my concerns, and I feel that he is genuine in his expression of care which...

anamikanon Thank you for your very insightful advice. "Why do his efforts not convince you? Do they contradict something you know or experience or perceive or suspect or...." Yes to all but one (know). Perhaps my subconscious is trying to tell me something after all.

My bf and I started our relationship both wanting it to be open to other partners. We have both been dating other people, however, I am looking for other relationships while he is mostly interested in casual sex, mostly one night stands. I'm having difficulty with this because I see sex as a...