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    Polywog seeks advice-- pushy lover, uneven affection

    @london: This is indeed what I struggle with, when I say I worry over the meaning of his actions. I ascribe to the whole "they speak louder than words" and whatnot. Words are wind, as they say. I worry that it is an indication of him, in fact, being not that into me. You may be right. He's...
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    Polywog seeks advice-- pushy lover, uneven affection

    Not especially, day-to-day, but he can be very domineering in discussion. He's an adept debater, so he can be very difficult to disagree with. I think he just wants me to agree with him. Haha. Funny. But annoying as hell when you don't feel heard. Yes, I'm not interested in keeping things...
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    Polywog seeks advice-- pushy lover, uneven affection

    Eek! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that! I'm struggling with something similar, with a friend who disagrees with my openness to poly. She is very antagonistic towards my relationship with TPG. Granted, she's taken a step back (by not talking to me at all) when I told her to cool it. People...
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    Polywog seeks advice-- pushy lover, uneven affection

    Gosh, right? It was, when I first realized it, I was struck and so very touched by the beauty of it. There was no mistaking the feeling—and I always wondered how I'd know if I ever was! Pffft. Then I got very caught up in my head thinking about what it means, and is it fair, considering most of...
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    Polywog seeks advice-- pushy lover, uneven affection

    Apologies for the length of background info, and thank you for indulging me. At the foot are my questions, if you'd rather just skip down to that. I am new to non-monogamy. I had always wanted to explore it. There's something so thrilling about the freedom to pursue multiple loves, and the few...
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