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  1. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    This afternoon my family has been notified that my eldest sister Erica's rehab center has "an individual" has contracted Covid-19. We are now worrying about her since she is a survivor of both pulmonary emboli & a stroke that partially paralyzed her. There is nothing we can do for her other...
  2. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Angela is slowly recovering. She tells my mom that she has locked herself in her bedroom to self-quarantine. JR & Marion still have not come down with any symptoms. We are almost at the end of the two week imposed distancing. I don't know what we will do after Monday. We text all the time still...
  3. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Texting with JR this morning. He tells me that he is in constant contact with Dept of Health in our county cause he works in the water reclamation plant (he cleans the water for the county). From what he has told me that he is to keep to his cleaning schedules, both in & out of work. He has...
  4. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    As far as I know as an essential worker he is required to work. When his 2 coworkers tested positive on Friday of last week, the entire building was tested. He does not have it. __________________________________________________________________________________ I have since told everyone in my...
  5. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    JR texted me this morning, it is official, Angela has COVID-19. She has a moderate infection and is still at home. Now JR is worrying about Marion. He has been doing a full clean of the apartment before going to work today. He is considered an essential worker for the county WDP. He works about...
  6. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    From snooping on my mom's FB, no answer about Angela's test yet. But it seems that Angela is steadily getting worse. JR is fine & I have no word about Marion. Only time will tell now.
  7. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    I am angry at the situation, not the people I was awakened by my mom this morning by her telling me that Angela has been posting on FB that she had been diagnosed with step throat after going to the doctor after developing a sore throat & a low grade fever on Saturday. But yesterday she also...
  8. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Because I gave JR my personal travel sized hand sanitizer he was able to sell a normal sized one to one of his coworkers. I am very excited. Tomorrow I will be setting up to make more inventory for future events, and to keep myself sane. I am calling it creative release. It's either do this or...
  9. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Mom bought a sanitizer on Sunday. And I gave my 2oz. personal spray sanitizer to JR today. He said he'd tell his coworkers about it. So many people are putting out the word that I have product. I just hope things pan out. 3 out of 9 total sold so far. My next event is on the first weekend in...
  10. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Today we had a swanky hooky nooky day. We got a really nice business suite in a hotel. I got him caught up on some Outlander. He's on season 2, episode 6. He's got alot of catching up to do. But I love seeing his reactions. We also took time to look at some more apartment listings. I told him...
  11. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Loving in the era of COVID-19 *sigh* Dating at this time is scary and upsetting at the same time. Last Friday we grabbed sushi & ate it, very carefully, in the car. We don't go anywhere we might be in large crowds, just to be safe. And now partially due to a combo of stress & early allergies. I...
  12. Valynn

    What precautions are you taking against the coronavirus in your poly networks?

    I live on Long Island right near the hospital that first case in Nassau County. I mostly live with what are considered "high risk". My mom who will be 77 in May, but is healthy as a horse, Elaine has a heart defect/ murmur, so does her 15yr old son. And I have an autoimmune disease (Ulcerative...
  13. Valynn

    Why Do You or Don't You Self Identify As Poly

    I knew I was different because my relationships would implode because I would fixate on another person before the first relationship was over. And in the case of my marriage I did have an affair with a close male friend of ours. But, I came to realize I was polyamorous after a brief stint in...
  14. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Craft fair season has started early this year. But not the way I had expected. I didn't make my table fee. Even though I tried a new product for me, lavender essential oil infused 97% isopropyl alcohol hand sanitizer, NONE SOLD. 2 bars of soap total. There were 2 other soapmakers there, which I...
  15. Valynn

    Have you ever been accused of being "bad at poly"? When/why?

    I have been accused of being bad at poly by Angela. Her and I have WIDELY differing views on how to poly. I found out recently that she is going about to mutual friends/ex's that I am trying to cowgirl JR away from her, for revenge. Revenge for what I have no clue, but that is what she is saying...
  16. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    JR & I had a nice lunch date today. His car is GORGEOUS!!! Sleek black with a gray interior. He apologized that this step took much longer than he had originally anticipated. He had to be on the dealership's butt about transferring his plates to the new car. I teared up when he said that & I...
  17. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    JR finally chose a 2020 Subaru Legacy. Another check has been off his TO-DO list. Slowly but surely things are moving along. He plans on looking at apartments in March. He says that he plans on being out of his current apartment by mid April. I personally have been dealing with my little PTSD...
  18. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    He changed his mind on the Ascent. He says it's "too big" & "don't need seats for 8 people". I think he's going for the Crosstrek. He is keeping me in the dark of what it actually is. I think he wants to have a TA-DAH moment. LOL. His description right now is "5 seater with a hatch back. Not the...
  19. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    JR is currently working on another part of his personal TO DO list. Getting a new car. He is looking at a Subaru Acsent or something similar. He hopes to check this off sometime this week, taking advantage of the President week car sales. Tomorrow we plan on our semi-regular having lunch. YAY!
  20. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    Tonight was a great Valentine's date. JR told me that probably on Monday he will be taking advantage of the President's day sales and get a car. So this is the second check off of his list. After this he will be calling apartments to set up viewings. He wants me to go with him to "kick the...
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