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I have finally concluded that I do not do FWB. It simply doesn't work for me. I have a tough time separating out romantic feelings and physical intimacy. If it gets physical, I find myself wanting a relationship. I often don't even like to cuddle much with my friends. I'm just not capable of...

Life is a lot like a puzzle sometimes but lately, the pieces have begun to come together. I had a revelation recently...it may come as a shock :p I've decided to be monogamous. Not with any specific person, just in general, for the future. It's not something I've ever experienced. As I've...

This made me giggle! I don't think anyone's ever asked me that. Although, when I was a wee tyke, I thought that boys or girls could have or not have penises. I imagined that women with penises wore special panty hose so as to accommodate their extra parts. I could have sworn that my friend Gabby...

@nycindie, Thanks! :) I enjoyed your recent long post. See, you've done "kinky" things that I'd be terrified to try. Cum freaks me out, hardcore lol. It's one of those things I'm not really sure how I'll integrate into sex happily. Guess I'll figure it out eventually. Perhaps because I've never...

@nycindie, I agree that there is a great deal of risk involved in a D/s relationship. It is highly symbolic, archetypal and powerful. When done skillfully, everyone in the relationship grows and benefits. But of course, it can also go very wrong. I've seen this happen. I've seen people that use...

hmmm, the girl the pretends people are dead...that's very interesting. I think there is some psychological effectiveness to that. Really allowing yourself to drop it and move on. I can see how that would make for strange reunions though. Perhaps it helps her not get back into destructive things...

I agree the kink has broad range of interest/dynamics/reasons, etc. But I was only finally able to accept it when I internalized that people do it because they WANT to. If someone hates being in the lifestyle, they won't do it, or they're being abused. It's not all always fun and games, but...

I know a guy that has a tough time cumming... I suspect it may be due to the death grip. ;) @Bu I can see what you're saying about single people and primaries. I think it's hard as a single person to be a secondary. I'm sure there are some who feel good in that role and enjoy having less of a...

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In my defense, I'm a virgin. So I have yet to experience sex with either gender. I'm not denying that sex with men could be interesting. That has just been one of my fears. I certainly plan to make sex with my partners as interesting as possible. I just haven't had the chance yet. :)

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For me, the idea with an I sentence is not that is a law set in stone but a principle that tends to value owning your shit. In a conflict being able to say, this is how I feel, this what I perceive has brought it about. Instead of You're a stupid asshole You never do anything right You...

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Hmm, that's very interesting. :) I'm still learning about sex so I always enjoy hearing explanations of things. The organic experience you're describing with women sounds like a lot of fun. Makes me wish I were interested in sex with women! Maybe someday I will be. :) I like your nickname for...

I think it's pretty normal to have insecurities. It's good to acknowledge them. Maybe you and he can talk about some of the good things about you and your relationship? Sometimes, if you can focus your energies elsewhere, you might not end up dwelling on the comparisons. Ultimately, he probably...

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