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what makes it worthwhile to you? searching through these posts I'm hardpressed to find a happy thread and I would definitely like to know your moments of polyamorous bliss. The lifestyle affirming moment/s that make it all worth the strife and struggle that comes with going against ingrained...

again Again, thank you all for your perspective and understanding of my situation. This has been one of the hardest situations I have ever been through and I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. When I got back from spending the weekend with my friend, my bf and I had a long...

more. I so appreciate your guy's advice and perspective on things! I don't feel like I have very many options as far as people understanding the situation. We have been fighting like cats and dogs over this and I'm not sure how to deal with it...i feel so alone and lame. I have told him my...

update-- I am so hurt right now, I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I told my boyfriend that I couldn't stand him dating the woman and would have to leave if he decided to..i know that it's...

I am really hesitant to say absolutely not because of what the man had said about the woman having feelings for my boyfriend. At this point, as I said I am not ready for our relationship to go fully open in that way so ex-communicating sounds pretty good. I am very afraid to trust the woman...

I am having a really hard time right now because I feel like I am not being allowed the time to transition properly into this lifestyle. My boyfriend and I were hanging out and drinking with some poly friends and the man approached me and asked me what I thought about my boyfriend having...

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I can definitely relate. Thank you for doing this! I struggle with these things everyday myself and it's awesome to hear of somebody getting through it and learning. You are awesome!

thank you nycindie, I've asked a moderator to move this. My apologies.

hello, Is there any way you could move my post "ugh. Tough stuff" to the poly relationship corner? I mistakingly posted it as a blog. Thank you for your help!

Thank you very much for your reply by the way, and I did take the love language quiz. It did shed some light on the matter..thank you for the suggestion! I guess I feel like..I don't know how long it will take me to fix or at very least, better to a point of comfort, my self esteem and is it...

oh, i didn't realize this wasn't an open forum type of thing. I was wondering why i wasn't getting any replies!

I feel much in the same boat darlin, its an uneasy feeling when the one you love is open to loving someone else. You just have to decide that loving him and accepting him means loving and accepting all of him, including his desires. (speaking to myself here too..) You can obviously decide that...

I am 21 and have just recently gotten into poly and quite honestly it scares me. My boyfriend and I have been in a closed relationship for 4 years and I lost my virginity to him in the beginning. So as far as it was he's been my experience..I have had sex with one other guy since deciding to go...

Oops, I'm using my girlfriends account, my username is actually polypenguin Anywho, Shooting Star, I'm 23, and know where you're coming from. Your question which is by far the most common question for folks new to polyamory or even the idea of polyamory is this "How do i deal with the...