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If nothing else its a big part of it! He's tattooing and meeting a lot of new people so I know that's where his focus is. H is trying to talk to me as much as she can, I'm just greedy. It's going really well for him and I'm really glad it is! It's just hard to actually be happy about it when...

Temporary Sigh...because this right now is temporary. Everything that I'm unhappy with right now is temporary...it's just a longer temporary than this unbelievably inpatient kid (me) likes to deal with. I was incredibly happy with everything before and during my vacation...their vacation is a...

I don't expect anyone to find this interesting...I just need a place to vent. I am freakin miserable right now because my couple is in the States without me and I'm at home. Normally it wouldn't be a big deal...I like alone time...but I don't like the town I live in right now, for a few...

B is very all or nothing in everything he does. So the forever thing is really his idea, although H is happy to go along with it. She's also entertained my freaking out, and let me go through it when he wanted to fight me. It's complicated. We'll see if it actually works that way. Freedom is...

Hi! Hi Jodi! Thank you. So far so good here too ;)

Sounds similar to my situation. But they (B especially) want to make it a forever thing and also a closed thing. So there'd be no other boy toys for me. You are young (I stalked you for a second :D), so I agree. No worries for a good while! I've got a few years on ya, but my traveling and job...

Nothing Crazy With H, we usually just act very much like good girlfriends do/would...most of the time we're not super flirty/touchy, we just talk a lot. She is my sounding board for frustrations with B (sometimes he and I fight a lot...we're both incredibly stubborn) because she's been with...

:) Hugs ALWAYS appreciated! Thank you!!! I kinda just try to go with it. I'm happy with where we are, so there's no need to "what if" the situation. That doesn't mean I'm very successful at not "what-iffing." B just tells me to get over it. He's such a guy. :rolleyes:

thank you Thank you, Redpepper. I've read a lot of your stuff on here. It's nice to know even you feel it.

That's kinda what I figure. I see so much resentment and strain in mono marriages. I think that's why I've never jumped into relationships/getting married/etc. The openness is what I dig about doing this poly thing. I was away from my couple for two weeks and just got to see them again... Cloud...

True The only constant is change, right? Then why's it so difficult to just roll with it? LOL. It's good to have the reminders. I want the magic answer, but I know it's just what it is.

So I'm in the process of letting go of what I thought my life would be like. It's freakin hard! I'm incredibly grateful for the opportunities I've had, especially career-wise. But I didn't love my first real job, and I'm transitioning out of it within the next year and a half. At pretty...

Thank you! I'm American, just temporarily living there.

new kid seeks direction! I’m hesitant to let too much out here, but I do want to learn while I’m here, so this is my story. I’m 28 and never been married…I’ve never been good with traditional relationships (or with LDRs, as a lot of mine end up being) so about a year ago I started...

Hi all...just wanted to jump in and say hello to everyone. I'm 28/f living in Japan at the moment and I guess I'm the unicorn of my triad. It's confusing as hell and I'm tryin to work my way through everything to figure out if this is something I want permanently. At any rate, I'm all about...