Repost?
Hi Jen,
May I talk with you about linking or reposting your sermon on the UUPA sermons page? Email me at [email protected]
Any other UU sermons on polyamory out there?
Thanks,
Jasmine
At the heart of the issue is what it means to be a Christian, and this takes digging into Scripture, digging into one's soul, and peeling off the layers of expectations that church -- not faith -- has pasted on a person.
When Moses asked God whom he should say sent him to demand the release of...
Were you able to meet with the minister yet?
All the more reason to make a Sunday appointment, so that she knows you are looking to meet with her. Otherwise, she might schedule a committee meeting or a meeting with another person.
Appointments are your friend.
Jasmine
Learn her language
I don't agree. I do, however, think you have to approach the discussion a different way.
You and your wife are speaking different religious languages. One of you has to learn the other's language.
Please understand: Learning to speak Christian has nothing to do with...
PolyMono support
There are specialty lists:
PolyMono · Polyamorous/Monogamous Support
"This is a support group for monogamous people in a committed relationship with someone who is polyamorous."
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PolyMono/
livingpolymono · Polyamorists with Monogamous Partners...
The "Christian Marriage" that initially was a hurdle for me was the unspoken assumption that monogamy is automatic and unquestionable. And in fact, simply asking one's spouse to TALK about nonmonogamy -- without taking any action -- has the potential to seriously stress or even break up a...
The minister's contact info is available on the the York church's website. If you make an appointment, then you won't have to try to "catch" her after the service.
Jasmine
Finding a UU congregation in PA
Does she want to explore Christianity from this new perspective? There is an organization called UU Christian Fellowship, which will be holding a Revival near D.C. March 22-25. I highly recommend the organization and the Revival.
http://www.uuchristian.org...
I'm glad you found this message board. I remember how I struggled when we first became poly. I spent months and months wrestling with my faith. Then I finally figured out that for me, becoming polyamorous was part of BECOMING-- of becoming more authentically the person God created me to be...
Article about family
Just found an online article about this very topic, posted today:
"Opening to Family About Open Marriage
http://www.jujumamablog.com/2012/01/04/opening-to-family-about-open-marriage/
Poly Pride
> 1) Share information. Print off pages from poly websites
In particular, print off the Poly Pride page, and muse to FM how much you and bf would like to attend a Poly Pride event.
http://www.poly-nyc.com/pride.html
> ...bizarre to ask for a meeting...
Not really. I know of at...
Practice saying these phrases before your meeting:
"You are violating my boundaries."
"Your behavior is inappropriate."
Then you can talk about boundaries - recognizing them, honoring them.
Jasmine
Do you know about the PolyMono email list? It's designed for people who prefer to be monogamous and who are in a relationship with someone who prefers to be polyamorous, so they can talk with each other.
PolyMono Yahoo group
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/polymono/
Jasmine
There's an email list for monogamous people in relationship with polyamorous people, and a long list of links to articles for members.
PolyMono · Polyamorous/Monogamous Support
> "This is a support group for monogamous people in a committed relationship with someone who is polyamorous -...
Have you considered asking your husband to attend a polyamory conference with you? Just for the information and to meet people, see what they are like. Or a local poly group Meet and Greet?
Upcoming conferences:
Poly Living, February 2012, Philadelphia PA...
Resources for Quakers
trueRiver, this was interesting to read. Along the same lines, there's an essay discussing polyamory in terms of the principles of the Unitarian Universalists. It's available here:
http://uupa.org/Literature/polyprinciples.html
There's a Yahoo Group you might find...
Years ago, I dared to examine my interest in non-monogamy before I knew the word polyamory. I did this at the same time that I dared to examine my Christian beliefs deeply for the first time. I thought I was on two parallel tracks. I, too, thought it was ironic, as well as bizarre, if not...
I'm a Christian. I had a fascinating conversation with an atheist a week or two ago, in which he and I understood each other on a point of faith for the first time. I've been working on finding a way to understand at least a little the atheist approach for over ten years now, and finally got...