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Wow, I haven't been around in a long time so quick recap... Bf of 7 yrs, gf of 3. I've been his and her only partner for pretty much the entirety of both relationships. Jules has had casual things and hook-ups. He's always been honest and open about it, so I've been able to trust him and feel...

Aimee and I have been going through some transitions lately. A little back story... I've been with Jules for 7 yrs and Aimee for 3. I've posted about it here before but... About 2 yrs into my relationship with Aimee, I went through some changes with Jules, and we had a non-sexual relationship...

I can relate to things colorswolf and london are saying in this thread. I am very young, but have recently done a lot of exploring. I am realizing certain personality traits and personal needs that align with my beliefs. I deeply desire freedom and independence. When I feel controlled or held...

Changes and transitions in LTR-- letting go, breaking up or changing expectations? Does it ever get easier??? I feel I have been dredging through the same issues for so long. I feel so foolish, selfish, confused. I keep going back and forth on what I want, what I need, what makes sense. I'm...

Am I wrong in getting pissed off here? I cannot stand even the idea of being controlled or told what to do. I feel like this is an enormous thing to ask of me. Quick back story, (read my other posts for more details): I've been with my bf Jules for 6 yrs, gf Aimee for 2. Pretty much closed...

Hi everyone. I hope all is well. I thought others might be able to benefit from a discussion about this topic I've had on my mind for a while-- crushes and lust. I have a bf and a gf. I am the hinge in the V, and none of us date anyone else. Jules is allowed freedom to flirt, kiss, fuck...

Hey. I've posted here a few times in the past about my relationships. I have a bf, Jules, of 6 years and a gf, Aimee, of two year. Things are going pretty well. The last time I was here, I was agonizing over my sexual feelings (or lack thereof) for Jules. I wasn't sure if I was gay or what...

Hi again, Feel free to read my other posts if you'd like more of a back story. Long story short, I've been with my boyfriend Jules for 5 and a half years, started dating my girlfriend Aimee a year and a half ago. This is my first serious girlfriend and first serious poly relationship. I fell...

Hey, This is kind of a silly topic but one I'm sure many of you have thought of! Any way, I've been with my bf for 5+ yrs so he has always been on my facebook profile as "in a relationship with ___." I've been w my gf for a yr & a half and she feels understandably as if she might seem less...

*Long post warning* I posted my story here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8929 (To summarize, I've been with my bf Jules close to 5 yrs, and my gf Aimee almost 1 year now.) Here is something I posted explaining my confusion in another thread: Well, my feelings aren't...

Hi! I've been dating Jules for nearly 5 years now. I recently started a relationship with another girl, and we've been dating close to 8 months now. Aimee is my first *real* girlfriend, the first one I've had a serious relationship with. I don't think I'm really necessarily a polyamorous...

I've been with my boyfriend, Jules, 4 and a half years now. Things have always been absolutely perfect. We were the couple all our friends told us they looked up to. I am bisexual. Jules has always been open to me being physical with other girls, whether he was around or not, as long as I kept...