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I think it's my age......the eyes have started changing a great deal as I get older. I do get my contact prescription changed every year, but they are not like they used to be.

I would love to read your entire blog, but I find it hard to read with the black background and white letters. I find this format much easier to read.

Good Party!!!...with a bit of a different spin on the timing of things!! OMG!!! Things turned out great!! So.....me and Richard drove to New Orleans in time for lunch on Saturday. Marie hasn't had a sexual experience in three years, so she was getting nervous about sharing a room with me...

Idealist Poly Blog Part 44- my vision is coming true!! Well---looks like I got my wish!!! me, Richard, Pete and Marie are going to New Orleans tomorrow! Marie invited a female friend, so I invited a male friend who lives there....and I invited a couple that Richard and I recently had the...

Awwww...come on- you're completely anonymous, do tell. :p

Interesting topic! I have a bisexual orientation- something I was born with. I have made several lifestyle choices in my life. First I lived a heterosexually monogamous lifestyle. Then, a lesbian monogamous lifestyle. Now I am living a bisexual polyamorous lifestyle. For me, uou can have...

Nycindie, Redpepper and all.....when are we going to appear on a talk show to talk about Polyamory????? ;) I think I'm ready!!

How about this......Treat others the way they want to be treated and notice who is interested in understanding how you want to be treated and engaged in following through with it.

That could be right, and that means that he is not emotionally available for a long-term healthy relationship. NRE doesn't last forever, so when it ends, that particular woman is of no interest anymore. As long as a woman isn't expecting a reciprocal relationship with him, then go for it.

Just a bit of info... you probably already know it, but just thought I'd share anyway. Generally, the risk of contracting HIV between two women is very low. The risk of HIV being passed on through oral sex is low, but it is increased if a woman has cuts or sores in her mouth, or if the partner...

It's quite possible that if you get another male partner who is really hot for you and you start enjoying sex again, your primary partner may suddenly become interested. Things work like that sometimes!

I'll have to disrespectfully disagree with you here, Redpepper. You might be able to make a distinction between "sex addiction," "love addiction" and "relationship addiction," but whatever you call it, this dude is exhibiting some major addictive tendencies, and that never turns out right.

Basically, you've become like a drug for him. A sex addict is not going to be able to experience a healthy loving relationship. The question is, why would you settle for this? What is keeping you from pursuing something healthier?

Red flags everywhere. Is this really love? I'm probably older than you. Not sure how old you are. But after a while, what happens in life, you can look back and realize that you've been "in love" so many times. Infatuation... new relationship energy... lust... love... It's easy to confuse...

Yes and I'm not buying into it!

At least you seem to be more in reality now! There are tons of red flags here!

That depends on the person and the relationships dynamics. I have a male partner that lives 1000 miles away, and for 10 years we have spent an average of 1-2 weeks together per year. Sometimes we skip a year.

Haha...you've had 5,656 views as of today....I think people are reading!! Keep it up!!

Hello and Welcome!! I had a few questionss....just curious. 1- how long were you married? 2- how much time passed between the time you moved out of the home you were in with your husband and the time you moved in with them? If 2 is less than 25% of 1, then I suggest you move out now....for...

I'm assuming that the chemistry is great between your husband and his wife? Not sure if you are new to the lifestyle or not, but if you are new then you might as well realize that this is the norm. It's very rare to find 4 way compatibility. So- I agree that it's best to be honest right up...