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Oh, okay, you are worried about your ability to satisfy her after she's been with him, because you're thinking she might actually stretch out so that a smaller penis wouldn't satisfy her any more. I seriously doubt that. You may need to contact Sue Johanson. I was in a monogamous lesbian...

Thanks for sharing. Wow! This is such an awesome support group. I am impressed with all of the great feedback. What came to mind for me as I read through your posts was that this is one of the advantages of polyamory. My primary partner doesn't meet some of my needs, and I am free to pursue...

Okay... Well, polyamory is about a lot more than the size of someone's penis. It seems odd that you think of other men simply as a penis, but okay. I guess there is some fear of her finding someone she would rather be with? Is that what is going on with you? How would you feel if she meets a...

Wow. Good luck with your meeting with her! Has Brody exhibited any of the "white night" behavior before, in the 8 years you've been together? Sounds like "rescuer" behavior. In your explanation of the situation, I can see that the most common triangle pattern is: her- victim him- rescuer...

Bells, it sounds like you are being practical and thoughtful about it. Communication is important and so is observing behavior. The amount of time a person decides to devote to their relationship(s) depends on how important relationships are to them. There are plenty of people who want to...

Really? I don't mean to sound snotty, but it almost seems like you might be joking. Are you serious?

solution.....viagra, levitra or cialis I'm sorry...did I miss something. Is everyone so young on this post that you've never considered it- or did I miss something where there was a group consesus which decided that taking viagra, levitra or cialis is not okay and should never be mentioned on...

I have become a Professional and Life Coach working with teams and individuals. There is a system of looking at professional teams that has proven to be extremely effective in the business arena. These 8 aspects of a productive team can also be applied to any type of group or relationship. The...

Our Polyamory Relationship seen in a different light I have become a Professional and Life Coach working with Teams and Individuals!! There is a system of looking at Professional Teams that has proven to be extremely effective in the business arena! These 8 aspects of a productive Team can...

Idealist Poly Blog Part 43- still polyamorous and lovin' it!!! It's been a while since I've posted!! Still living a happy poly life!! Me and Richard are still primary partners. He purchased a 2nd home and we are remodeling it. It is 2 1/2 hours away from my home and his 1st home but it's on...

Beliefs Thanks for sharing. :) I would say that your own limiting beliefs will be what will block you from meeting someone on a dating site or a meet-up. Look around you. Don't you know any couples who are in a long-term relationship which began online? Just because all of your relationships...

I experienced similar things when I was your age and what I did was seek therapy. My therapist really helped me sort things out and I continued to see her off and on for many years. It's truly a valuable gift you can give yourself that will last a lifetime. Good luck!! There are also a lot of...

I like this thread. A lot of people are saying a lot of valid things here!!! I agree with Sage. My healthy relationships are not difficult. The painful and difficult relationships I’ve been in did not last. For me, a lot of emotional pain in a relationship tends to be an indicator that...

Idealist Poly Blog Part 42- Yeah for the occassional Spontaneous Sexual Encounter!! It seems to me that polyamory attracts a lot of emotional people. I totally get that….. polyamory is about a heartfelt connection…..that’s what I want. For me, it’s not satisfying be sexually involved with...

I recognize this grammer and sticky sweet "too good to be true" bullshit. This is a scam artist. If you would follow up with him, you would find out that his wife died and he has a child which is ill and they are traveling away from home. After about 4 messages back and forth, he will ask you...

My two cents I so agree. I also do not feel that I have anything to hide. I am completely anonymous here, but if someone really wanted to find my blog on here, they could. I occasionally mention to people that I participate on this forum, and as much as I might like someone to say, "I found...

It's okay- John doesn't read this site!!!

Gecko----That relationship was over a year ago....water under the bridge. You must be confusing John with someone else!! Anyway- no worries!!!

Just wondering Gecko---- what are you talking about?!?!??! :o

Idealist Poly Blog Part 41- Gliding on NRE Just some of my thoughts and opinions about NRE. NRE is so intoxicating that there is an impulse to feed it by spending as much time with your new love interest as possible. I would like to suggest another way to approach it!! First of all, the magic...