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TMI and kinda graphic...you've been warned... Spent some time with Moonlight last night, and would just like to inform you all that a zerbert (some people call it a raspberry) to the clit can levitate a girl right off the bed! Mmmmm.....;)

Yummy, thanks!! :D

I'm totally a scent girl too. Fly, the partner I'm most compatible and most bonded with, smells wonderful to me, no matter his cleanliness/sweat level. It's comforting. It feels safe. Moonlight and Punk both smell good to me too. I can't be physically close with someone whose skin doesn't smell...

And yay! After over a year, I've finally figured out how to do multiple quotes! I think I deserve a cupcake. :p

I totally get this. I want to try to make her feel loved in the ways she needs to hear it, but it seems so insincere because these aren't things I would naturally say. I think I'll have to ponder ahead of time some things I can say that will give her what she needs without making me feel like a...

Oh, and we also talked a little about her dependency on me for all her needs. She still doesn't want to date other people, but she's agreed that she needs to be more respectful of my relationship with Fly, and my life choices. Part of it is that she expresses romance through over-the-top...

Thanks Indie :) It went better than I could have possibly believed!!! Although, I really have a bad sense of timing. :rolleyes: I went over to Moonlight's house for dinner Friday night, and after we retired to the bedroom, she made some joke about keeping me to herself, and I busted out with...

The connected pet peeve to this is that I do say what I mean, so freaking believe me when I say it! If I tell you I don't mind if you have sex with my boyfriend, I really don't mind. I'm not hiding jealousy, I'm not "testing" you to see what you'll say, I really don't care. Additionally, I...

Hi, all you lovely people! :) I am really struggling, and it's not something I expected at all. When Moonlight and I first got together seriously, she requested that I not sleep/have romantic relationships with anyone but her and Fly. At the time, I readily agreed. There really wasn't anyone...

Fly and I have a lot in common. We both love to travel, have similar views regarding politics and being global citizens, enjoy some of the same music, both have an interest in healthy food and local food systems, we're both atheists, we agree in our parenting strategies, blah blah blah. But we...

When I met Fly, he was coming off a bad, shit-hit-the-fan breakup, and told me that because he felt he was incapable of monogamy, he could never offer me exclusivity. Being a virgin and having had very limited experience with relationships, I decided to try it out with him and see how it went...

Update time. Ive been having a variety of lovely dates with Moonlight - a fancy dinner for Valentine's Day, dinner and a Marvin Hamlisch tribute concert at the Seattle Symphony, overnights and etc. Things are really good there, although we don't get together enough to suit her, and I feel bad...

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Life Goes On I'm house sitting this week, and reveling in the fact that it's only 5 blocks from work. Hooray for rolling out of bed at the last minute! Typically, I take Kiddo to school in the morning, because Fly works early, and sometimes gets called in at 1 or 2 AM. However, since I'm house...

Awww, thanks! :) I want a mixed flock of about 6, and I'm shooting for one of each of the following: Rhode Island Red Black Copper Maran Buff Orpington Gold Laced Wyandotte Ameraucana Australorp We picked them for good egg production, egg color, ability to bear confinement, and friendliness...

Wow, so long since I've posted here! Things are mostly good. Fly has been dating a woman to whom he was attracted to about 10 years ago, but for various reasons had decided not to pursue at that time. They have begun seeing each other, and had sex for the first time about a week ago. He's very...

Moonlight has a prestigious position in city government. Fly is a high-level manager in an artisan bakery. I'm the director of a childcare center, and I also teach in the preschool. Other than the fact that Fly and I are true Seattlites and not particularly fashionable, we're sort of...

My boyfriend, Fly, hardly ever tells me he loves me. It took maybe 3 years into our relationship for him to say it, and he almost never says it first, unless he's a little tipsy. :rolleyes: Every couple months I'll ask, "Hey, you love me?" and he'll say "Yes, I love you." Usually, if I tell him...

In my experience, poly relationships seem to be much more fluid than mono ones. For instance, with a mono relationship, there are all these fairly concrete levels: dating, being exclusive, becoming a couple, maybe getting engaged, maybe marriage, maybe breaking up. And when you break up, it's...

It's been a close call for me a couple times, because Fly and Moonlight's names are very similar and actually rhyme! So far I've caught myself, but I'm fairly certain a mistake is inevitable. If one of them called me the wrong name, my feelings would be hurt. Intellectually, I would know it...