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Okay, a little background... I have put 19 years into this relationship. We have 2 children. I have put my wants, needs, feelings, you name it on a backburner for this person. He has had his cake and eaten it, too, numerous times, and really throughout our entire relationship.

And why should I as a mono person have to work thru all that so my poly partner can be happy? Why should I have to suffer, dig deeper, be unhappy so he can be happy?

And why do I or any mono people have to work thru our jealousies or dig deeper to find out what the issue is, like, why am I jealous? It is normal to feel that way. Yes, you can love multiple children, you can love your friends and family. It is not the same thing as the person you share your...

Ok so, if you are mono, and your partner is poly, what exactly are you getting out of them being in a relationship with new people? While they are experiencing new firsts and all the excitement of being with someone new, what are you getting out of it, really? I have no problem with alone time...

Hi there, I'm sure you got plenty of messages from couples since you seem to be the Unicorn a lto of us are looking for ahahah :) anyways here is a link to read about us no idea where you are located but would love to hear from you if you find us interesting enough...

Thanks for all the great advice and feedback. It's nice to be able to actually talk about this out in the open. Friends and family think I'm crazy for sharing. They don't get it. So I appreciate you lending your ear. I think I am going to take your advice, take things slow, not force anything...

Yes, I agree I need to forgive her, more for myself and my own sanity to move forward, than for her. It would be nice to hear an apology, some responsibility for her actions, rather than just playing the victim. We took a year off. We cut off all contact whatsoever with one another. Recently we...

I know for a fact she knew I was pregnant. That is what pushed them together in the first place. I understand that when you are new and in love, you believe the unbelievable, but that doesn't excuse what she did, does it? That doesn't rid her of any guilt, or saying she was wrong or sorry...

I think that is part of the problem.. She doesn't think she has done anything wrong. She has never apologized or even owned up to what she did and what she was trying to do. She feels like she was lied to, so she thought our marriage was already over, so she wasn't destroying anything. But if...

We have a lot of anger, resentment and bitterness towards one another, which makes it that much harder to be friendly with each other. Our relationship started on a bad foot from the beginning. I didn't go into too much detail when I first started posting, because I was trying to get some...

Thanks for all the replies and feedback. Yes, as of now, I am just an arm of a V. Sorry if I'm not using the wording correctly. It's still so new to me. Last time around, we opened the relationship up, sat down and had a discussion, the 3 of us, and decided on a schedule and what to expect...

I've been a lurker on this site for quite a while...probably a little over a year to be exact. I've been married to my husband for 17 years & we have 2 children living at home with us. Our oldest son (my son; my husband's stepson) is already moved out of the house. We've had many threesomes...

I've been a lurker on this site for quite a while. Probably a little over a year, to be exact. I've been married to my husband for 17 years. We have 2 children living at home with us. Our oldest son (my son; my husband's stepson) has already moved out of the house. We've had many threesomes...