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I've been thinking about what it means to say "I love you" to someone. There are people who think you should just say it if you feel it. To everyone you feel that way about. I'm not sure I agree. It would be lovely to live in a world where you could just say it without it meaning anything else...

I've never been in this situation before, but I can now say for myself that it sucks to be a secondary to someone I have feelings for without a primary of my own. :( The closer I feel to Marco the sadder I get because I know we'll never share big life things. When I had a life partner of my own...

Today I feel incredibly sad. I have a lot of feelings about a lot of things and nobody to help me carry these things. I've had some amazing chats with friends recently, and they have made me feel better, but I don't have anyone who has that role in my life who could just...hold me. Who I could...

After a bit of back and forth it turned out that Olivia prefers flying separately, so we're now not coordinating our flights after all. Which is probably good, who knows what we think about each other in a month and a half. :D So maybe it is actually good to separate this trip from our dating.

This is turning out to be more difficult than I thought. My best friend Maxine is also coming along to this trip and when I saw her yesterday, we looked at flights and I texted with Olivia to see if she wanted to coordinate flights with us. Turns out all three of us are going to be flying there...

I had a fantastic fourth date with Olivia a few days ago. We went to a lovely little restaurant and a had a drink afterwards. We talked about a lot of stuff, including kink. I had no idea before, but apparently our mutual friend Yvonne had kind of recommended me to Olivia after hearing about her...

Dahlia and Eddie broke up last night. :( They still want to continue living together though. We'll see how that goes. I'm prepared for both outcomes: either it works like it did with me and Dahlia, or it doesn't like with Hank and Dahlia. Only time will tell.

I finally have a fourth date with Olivia tomorrow! We haven't been able to see each other in a few weeks because she's been ill and then traveling. But now she's healthy and back in town again, so I get to see her. :) Based on our texting, I'd say we're both really excited to see each other...

Both of these visits happened, the second one just left this morning. I had sex with both of them, and it confirmed my suspicion. I need to stop having casual sex, at least for now, because my body just isn't on board anymore. I'm not responding like I used to. Interestingly in between those two...

I don't know what to do about Marco. We have a great time together and the sex is phenomenal. We keep in touch every few days, but we're not each others' primary emotional support. He lives with his partner and gets tired easily, so there is an upper limit on how often we can see each other. We...

I feel you! I'm also questioning pretty much everything in my life right now, and I'm turning 32 next month. 30's crisis is the new mid-life crisis? :D

I'm considering my living options at the moment. As much as I like living with Dahlia and Eddie, there is something about them being a couple and me being the third wheel that sometimes feels a bit off. I mean, it works really well between the three of us, I have almost no complaints about...

Wow, that sounded pretty dramatic! I hope Dustin learns to cope with the situation and that there won't be more drama like that in the near future. I'm glad you're otherwise having such a good time with him though, it seems to make up for the not so great bits. :)

Today I got messages from two people that I've slept with once. Neither of them live in my city. The other is a guy I had a date with about four months ago when I went to a bunch of first dates from OKC. We had a pretty good time, but quite soon after the date he moved to a different country...

Thanks RainyGrlJenny and starlight1! It was a tough week, but I made it. Seeing Hank was harder. We talked about the past and cried and apologised. I had a panic attack after thinking about one specific thing that happened. Good times. :/ But all in all I think it was beneficial. I hope there...

Thanks for the comment fuchka! :) This week is a bit of a weird one for me. I'm meeting up with Hank today after a long time of not keeping in contact, and I'm seeing Jasmin on Sunday for the first time after the break-up. It hasn't been a month yet, but I realised that she's moving out of her...

I've just realised one thing that I have trouble with when it comes to people who are demisexual. They only feel sexual attraction once they've established an emotional connection to the person. But for me it kinda works the other way around. I need to have sex in order to feel a connection...

The date with Olivia went really well. :) We're taking it slow physically due to her demisexuality, but it seems that we're looking for the same things when it comes to relationships, so that's a great start! The conversation was great overall, I think we seem pretty compatible so far. Now we...

So... Do you still remember this thing that happened? I have a second date with her tonight. :) I originally said no to a second date even though I felt like a deep connection with her was very possible - or actually because of that - but since my situation has now changed, I explained it to...

I'm sorry for projecting so much, Reverie! It does sound like you and Rider are all good, and I'm really glad to hear that. :) You two sound like an awesome couple. <3