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Well that one didn't last for long, which is fine, but it did have one effect: I now want a sub/bottom. A summer-long subby fling. :D So I'm back on OKC, seeing if I can find one. Meanwhile, Jasmin has a new partner. I'm feeling a little insecure about it. Mainly I just hope that it won't...

Such beautiful vows <3

Thanks MeeraReed! :) So I have apparently also got myself into some kind of a casual D/s situation after meeting a guy at a Femdom club (where I went with Jasmin). So now I...have a sub? Well, maybe that's going a bit too far since we've only met twice. But we do have plans to keep meeting up...

I am really really happy right now. :) I'm glad that I made the decision not to start seriously dating new people for now. That has made my life quite a lot easier/simpler. And it helps a lot that I get so many of my relationship needs met with Jasmin, she is just amazing. We see each other 1-3...

Me and Jasmin are pondering future possibilities. She has decided that she will move out of the country in 6 months. She's going back to her home country. And I'm very much considering going with her. I've been thinking about a career change for a while now and there's a place I could study my...

So rory and I are no longer friends. We met up recently and afterwards he sent me an email stating that. I don't really want to get into details about the conversation or the email, but the whole situation led to huge amounts of anxiety for me and I felt I could barely breath for a couple of...

And similarly I can say that I like my boob with a nipple piercing more after I had it pierced than I did before. So yeah, that is definitely an impact it can have on some people. But I'm sure there are also people who already like the body part they are planning on piercing, and they do it just...

There are a lot of good suggestions in this thread. Like KC43, I also have a piece of jewelry that reminds me of my partner and I wear it when I specifically want to connect with her in my mind without her being with me physically. And like tenK, I also have a card from my partner where she says...

I have a lot of experience with kitchen style poly. I lived first with two partners, and later with those same two people plus two more. The latter was a very complicated polycule where everyone was dating or had dated 2-4 people within the house. By the time the house fell apart we had at one...

I'm starting to have some ideas about where to move next and what to do there. It feels exciting. I'll probably stay in my current country for a good long while still, maybe a year or more. But there will come a point when I'll leave, and it's good to start planning. It also seems like mine and...

Thanks Nadya, I will definitely try to keep my eyes and heart open to all the possibilities. :) In other news: I'm so in love with Jasmin it's ridiculous. :o NRE is super strong in both of us at the moment. It feels good. It feels soothing. And it also feels scary. But I'm going with it...

I'm really glad that you and Rider managed to reach an agreement where both of you can be happy. :)

I feel like I'm re-evaluating my whole life at the moment. What do I want out of my relationship life? What country do I want to live in? Do I want to continue in my job? Should I start studying again? What are my priorities? :confused: Big questions. I definitely feel like I need a change in my...

Things with Jasmin are going great and I think we're both falling pretty hard for each other. She is such a positive force in my life. :) Now that I'm only dating one person I've been thinking about poly a lot. I still feel polyamorous at heart, meaning that I can very easily love more than...

Thanks for taking the time to write all of that out, Reverie. It's super fascinating. It's also really great that you've found peace and clarity in what you want. I hope everything goes like I you hope it will. When it comes to your privacy question, I think I'm a bit different than the others...

Thanks, opalescent. It does kind of add insult to injury when you're already grieving the loss of one relationship and then you're hit with another break-up. I was talking about this phenomenon with some poly friends yesterday and one of them said that sometimes one relationship ending can...

And the cherry on top: Fay just broke up with me too. :( In about two months I went from 4 partners to 1. FML.

Thanks Nadya, I really hope that too! Thanks MeeraReed, that's very nice to hear. :) Yeah, I do often stay friends with my exes. Sorry to hear your experiences have been that different. :( I think it's partly because of how my parents treated their divorce when I was 12: they never spoke to...

Thank you for the lovely comment, RainyGrlJenny. But no, something happened last night that just completely screwed over my budding happiness. And I thought I could catch a break. Fuck you, 2016. Dahlia broke up with me. :( I can't even process it, it's too much to handle. After we've just...

Mine and Dahlia's visit to Home Country went really well. :) My mum really liked her, she said that from all the partners I've introduced her (that's 5 people) she likes Dahlia the best. :D Dahlia also really got along with the friends I introduced her to. So total success! There's also been a...