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Life is so much better now. Living in the new house is great. Peaceful. I really really hope this living situation turns out to be better than the previous one. :) Things are going really well with Dahlia. I'm taking her to Home Country for Christmas, so she'll meet my family and some of my...

For me the answer is almost always yes: I'm happy to know if they're happy to share. But how I feel after depends on how it's going between me and the partner in question. If we're having problems (especially sexual problems), them talking about the good sex they're having with someone else can...

I totally know what you mean by one less relationship meaning more time to think about other things! I've also noticed that. It's not all just about time spent with people, it's also about time and energy spent thinking about them. I'm really glad to hear that you're so happy with your current...

Me, Dahlia and Eddie have now moved. We have to pay double rent for a month and a half, which sucks, but it's worth it for the peaceful living situation. I've been pondering about my relationship with Hank a lot and the more I think about it, the more I'm really glad it ended. To be honest, it...

Thanks opalescent. Okay, we've now decided. All five of us are going to move out. We're giving our notice tomorrow. Me, Dahlia and Eddie are finding our own place and rory and Hank are finding a place together, plus possibly another housemate. Let's try this and hope it works better than the...

I gave the A-list a go a while back, for like a month or so and quit after that. I did it for that exact reason, I was curious to see who were all these people liking my profile. And I can confirm your suspicion at least from my experience, they are often low matches who have just liked how you...

Thanks RainyGrlJenny. It's been a tough few days. We're having a house meeting at the end of this week to talk about how we're going to move forward. We also just found out that we can actually leave the house before the end of the contract if we give 2 months' notice. We had all understood the...

Thanks fuchka. Happy birthday to you too! Me and Hank broke up yesterday. :( There is no way to make us happy enough if we stay together. We could maybe achieve something by just not living together, but that's not all there is. In the end it was a very mutual decision. We're too different, we...

Me and Hank had a really sad, serious conversation today. :( He asked me if I'm happy with him. I said it varies, sometimes I'm really happy and sometimes I'm really not. He said he feels the same way. He said he still loves me a lot. I said I feel the same way. I said our relationship feels...

It's my birthday this week. It's pretty great to have multiple partners when you're the birthday girl. :D I've been out with Dahlia on Tuesday, Fay on Wednesday and Hank on Thursday, and I'm having a party next week. I feel utterly spoiled. :) Me and Fay said 'I love you' for the first time as...

Thanks, Phy. :) That is very true. It was a risk we took knowingly. We knew that this could blow up in our faces, but we wanted to at least give it a go. And it was really great at first, but now it's really not. We have now decided that when the year is over, the five of us won't continue...

It was nice to read your latest news, Phy. Sorry to hear you're having problems though. :( I hope things take a turn to the better soon!

Wow, that was an intense story! I was at the edge of my seat reading it. Very interesting developments with Beckett. :) And having these intense feelings but also knowing that acting on them wouldn't be entirely ethical...man, that's hard. I love your writings always, but this story was...

So, Hank and Dahlia have basically decided that they can't be friends right now. They can be cordial in the house, but they can't spend too much time together or do fun stuff like friends do. It might be different in the future, but right now that's how it is. That also means the five of us...

Dahlia seems to be doing much better and things between me and her are good again. Me and Hank are fairly stable right now. Dahlia and Hank still have a way to go to sort our their problems, but I'm trying to stay out of that as much I can. I can't really do that 100%, but I'm trying my hardest...

I think things are slowly improving in the house. I think both Dahlia and Hank are starting to feel better, but I also think something will have to change in this house. Even if they can talk through their differences, things between them will probably never be the same again. So I think it will...

All of my partners are doing really badly at the moment for different reasons. I had a panic attack yesterday because I felt so shut down by Dahlia and so hopeless of her and Hank getting their conflict resolved. So I went to Fay's place for the night. She was trying her hardest to be...

Thanks for commenting, fuchka! Always nice to read your input. :) Things are pretty tense in the house right now. Hank and Dahlia have a conflict they haven't resolved yet and Dahlia doesn't want to talk about it to Hank before the weekend (that may sound a bit unusual, but she has reasons for...

Thanks nycindie, RainyGrlJenny and Nadya! :) It feels really good to be back together with Fay. :) And this might be a weird thing to say but I kinda like dating her more now that she's not with Gabriel anymore. I mean, we see each other about the same amount than before, so it's not that, but...

I'm so sorry to hear that, opalescent. :(