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So the dinner with Fay went really well. She said that she regretted breaking up with me and apologised like a thousand times. She kept saying that I'm awesome and she's an idiot and that I had done nothing to deserve that. I also got some new information about the events leading up to the...

Thanks for the sympathy, MeeraReed. :) Fay has been texting me fairly frequently since the break-up. She has just moved to her own place (well, with roommates, but own as in separate from Gabriel) and seems to be getting her life back on track. She invited me over for dinner at her new place...

I prefer to stay friends with exes if at all possible. I actually live with one of my most significant exes, rory (there's 5 of us in the house in total). We were together for 4.5 years, had some difficulties finding a friend-mode, but now we're totally there. It's pretty great. I regularly...

Gabriel did something really horrible to Fay. :( As a consequence of that, she left first him and then me and Isaac as well because her life pretty much turned upside down. She says she needs to be single for a while when she sorts her life out. She doesn't have the energy to think about anyone...

I can't wait either, nycindie. :D I'm glad my adventures are entertaining! I haven't updated here about my metamour situation. I've fairly recently gotten two more since both Dahlia and Fay have started dating someone new. I met Fay's new partner, Isaac, in the event I mentioned above. We had...

I spent last weekend in an event that made me super happy. Several lovely things happened, but I want to tell you about one thing in particular. :) This same event happens twice a year, and this one was my third one. There's this one person who has attended the same three events as me, and I've...

Thanks PinkPig and RainyGrlJenny! :) Things are still going perfectly with Dahlia. I recently told her that I love her and she said the same back. :o We're planning on visiting Home Country and her meeting my family and friends there later this year. Everything is just going so swimmingly and...

Me and Dahlia had a really good conversation yesterday about having kids. She actually brought it up even though it's really been on my mind as well, as you can see from my previous post. She said she's really enjoying the current living situation and both of her relationships (me and Eddie)...

I really try not to worry too much about the future, but I just can't help it sometimes. Things are going so well with Dahlia that I'm starting to worry if it can continue for a long time. We fit together well in most things, but there is one thing that we fundamentally disagree on at the...

Double NRE, hello old friend! :o Things are going really well with both Dahlia and Fay, and I have so many positive, uplifting and preoccupying thoughts and feelings. It's quite exhausting at times, but I'm also enjoying it a lot. They are both wonderful, and I'm really happy. :) My...

Thanks RainyGrlJenny and PinkPig! House stuff is going well. We're all pretty excited about living in this house together. :) However, two things have happened: Me and Dahlia decided that we're "officially" a couple and a few days later, completely unrelatedly, Dahlia and Hank broke up. So you...

We've moved in! The house is great, I really love it and our new area. :) There's still plenty to do in terms of getting some new furniture and unpacking, but at least we're doing that together. <3 I'm looking forward to this new adventure!

I'm glad you're already feeling better about it. :) I just wanted to throw my experience in the mix. I started therapy quite recently, and my therapist is completely awesome when it comes to polyamory, bisexuality and all that. And she was my first try! Good luck and I hope it goes well. :)

Yes it is, it has 5 bedrooms. :)

Yesterday I had my fourth date with the woman from OKC. At this point I will name her because things seem to be going really well. I'll call her Fay. :) Yesterday was such a bonding date. We talked about some very personal experiences and it felt so good. I really appreciated her opening up to...

Thanks for this, nycindie. :) It's good to be reminded! I try not to worry too much, and I know that Hank is different from me in that he really doesn't mind if his two partners get together. I know I project my own issues on him. I'm sure it'll get better with time when I see that he actually...

The thing with Dahlia is freaking me out a little bit, just because it makes everything more complicated on paper. I say on paper because obviously I don't know how it will pan out in reality, although so far so good. Hank, Eddie and rory all seem happy for us and are being very encouraging, but...

Thank you nycindie and Nadya! :) In a surprising turn of events, me and Dahlia have developed feelings for each other. :o I resisted it for a while because, you know, her being my metamour and future housemate, and me having a hard time when roles are reversed (my two partners getting...

Oo, congratulations on your new family member! :) Sounds like you have a good system going in the house. How did you end up sharing the sleeping arrangements that you were pondering in your previous post, if I may ask?

I have news. :) The five of us found a house! It's not 100 % confirmed yet, but if all goes well, we're moving in a bit over a month. I'm very excited about this! House hunting has been stressful and we've been to quite a few viewings, but now that we've seen something pretty special, I can...