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most of my FB friends are people I was at school with,family or clients/business networks.. :) If any of you want to add me on FB,PM me your name/details and I will add you ;)

Mine is simple-my job is as a fitness trainer,I do have another nickname pertaining to my business but I'd rather not use it on here for privacy reasons ;)

Nick is never going to be accountable for his actions. He needs his butt kicked to the moon and back! Some people, no matter what their age, never grow up. Nick is one of them. I'm sorry you have been hurt in this, but you HAVE to look after yourself in this. Please don't keep 'going back in...

Female,Straight,in a relationship with a Poly male,I'm still learning and am not averse to the possibility of meeting someone else while I am with him :)

congrats!! :D

My partner is 7 hours drive away,I enjoy the distance because I like my own time and it HAS forced us to take things slower especially with the complications of his children and their mothers. We negotiate regularly and talk daily but we both recognise the need for our 'own time'.

my current partner tried to be mono with his last girlfriend because she wasn't happy with him being happy,but in the end the relationship self destructed because he could not be something he wasn't. With me,(I am mono) I accept his poly status and his secondary whom I've gotten to known as a...

Plus I think when someone expresses they are poly,it doesn't necessarily mean they are available..there should be something like 'poly but unavailable' just like there is 'single and unavailable' I told my partner about this thread and he was like' omg I get that so much,every woman thinks I...

That's so great. Glad you guys hit it off! :)

I've just read through the whole thread. I feel sad for you. It seems like you are sacrificing so much of yourself and your happiness. I have no doubt Maya will put 2 and 2 together and discover it's your wife that her husband has been cheating with, and given that you have known about it the...

Just think of it like you are meeting a new friend, because that's what it is at the beginning. ;)

I think it's great you have found something that works for you. It means you get to meet lots of interesting new people and have some new experiences, all while recovering from your marital breakup! :)

I find this forum much more beneficial in terms of honest advice,the NZ site is too small and plus,I also like the anonymity of here :)

What are your fears? When I first became involved with my partner, I was scared I would lose him to someone else. That fear still arises every now and then. You need to express your fears to your girlfriend and discuss them. I know the conversations will be hard, but it truly does help.

Welcome to the board, Rosalia. You're certainly not alone. Everyone's experience of being poly is different, I am mono, but I have a poly partner, and we discuss everything. Communication really is the key. What you say to each other comes down to your own comfort levels and way of...

i think you need to keep the communication lines open with your husband,if you feel this is something you won't grow out of,then you need to be honest but gentle with him. when I first met my partner(he is poly) it was and occasionally is still weird when we discuss how he feels about other...

Its nice to see another Kiwi on the board,welcome! :)

I have to agree with Mono here,you really need to think about what you REALLY want,is it the marriage and the monogamy or a chance to explore who you really are? I used to believe in marriage and monogamy a long time ago but when I fell in love with a poly man,my eyes were opened and I saw that...

I find this interesting because I find myself on the other side,my partner is poly,and I am mono but he has lots of female friends(some of whom he's dated in the past) who phone him when they want a threesome with their boyfriend. they just assume because he is openly poly that neither of us...

Hanging out with my bf and his other 'friend' for lunch and then telling her to 'spank him' if he was naughty! lol She cracked up and promised she would do it :D