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Actually, I think Red Pepper has a good read on this. Well, you could help him by not doing things that hurt him until after you have the financial resources to end the relationship completely, which certainly sounds to me like what needs to happen here.

Thanks for the welcome. Having grown up in a culture that has some weird ideas about age (and a lot of other things), it's pretty likely that I fall into lazy thinking and have weird preconceptions that I'm not aware of. The questions were my trying to illuminate what I read as marginalising...

Response to criticism of freaksexual essay As I am sure will be obvious from the following, I have a lot of sympathy for the position that younger poly-folk are marginalised. I doubt that I will have any more success communicating why I've come to this belief than Raven or Ceoli did, but...

Greekfail This came out kind of funny. 'Simantikos' is where we get words like 'semantic'; it's the property of signifying, like "the signifier" in linguistics. 'Simantikos allos' makes me think of the Signifying Monkey in American folklore, only it would be The Signifying (An)Other, which...

It's been done. Yes, I've been through this. Nobody was poly-fi, though, so I'm not sure that my experience is really equivalent enough to be reassuring that it can work (which it did, in our case). Getting dumped is really unpleasant, and I imagine that Delia would like a lot of...